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<blockquote data-quote="2BoysnKy" data-source="post: 552123" data-attributes="member: 15249"><p>I could always comfort him as an infant and toddler. I co-slept with him so cuddling is still not an issue. Unless he is having a fit then of course I can not comfort or cuddle with him <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/sigh.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":sigh:" title="sigh :sigh:" data-shortname=":sigh:" /> . I am sure the visitation is what caused the separation anxiety. I am seeing signs of anxiety in general now too. I am sure some kind of abuse went on during the summer visit setting this off quicker. I have a new attorney who is fighting tooth and nail for my boys. Court is pushed off for a few months because of difficult child. We need a report from the therapist for court and the judge we have takes them serious. I'm not going to blame it all on being abused I am sure he has the genes for it all as I am bipolar(stable) and was an ODD child with adhd, however I do know it has set it all off early, hard and quick. In therapy he does play therapy and has been allowed to do art while we talked but hasn't done actual art therapy yet. The things that have come out of him<img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/2012/censored2.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":censored2:" title="censored2 :censored2:" data-shortname=":censored2:" /> ... nothing a two year old should be saying happens to people by any means. I need a time out room that would be soo nice. He is the size of most 4yr olds which is why I have such a hard time getting him in his car seat when he doesn't want to go in it. I put easy child to bed in the bedroom at night (he says he doesn't want his brother down there because he won't let him go to sleep) and the baby stays upstairs with me. He either falls asleep in his beanbag or in the recliner with me rocking. I try to get him to lay down and its a fight so I only try like once a week and he use to just go to his bed and fall asleep by himself. I would so like to know what happened so I could "fix" it for him tho I am sure its genetic too working out some would have to make it a little easier I would think. ... Is therapy the only thing right now that I should be doing?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="2BoysnKy, post: 552123, member: 15249"] I could always comfort him as an infant and toddler. I co-slept with him so cuddling is still not an issue. Unless he is having a fit then of course I can not comfort or cuddle with him :sigh: . I am sure the visitation is what caused the separation anxiety. I am seeing signs of anxiety in general now too. I am sure some kind of abuse went on during the summer visit setting this off quicker. I have a new attorney who is fighting tooth and nail for my boys. Court is pushed off for a few months because of difficult child. We need a report from the therapist for court and the judge we have takes them serious. I'm not going to blame it all on being abused I am sure he has the genes for it all as I am bipolar(stable) and was an ODD child with adhd, however I do know it has set it all off early, hard and quick. In therapy he does play therapy and has been allowed to do art while we talked but hasn't done actual art therapy yet. The things that have come out of him:censored2: ... nothing a two year old should be saying happens to people by any means. I need a time out room that would be soo nice. He is the size of most 4yr olds which is why I have such a hard time getting him in his car seat when he doesn't want to go in it. I put easy child to bed in the bedroom at night (he says he doesn't want his brother down there because he won't let him go to sleep) and the baby stays upstairs with me. He either falls asleep in his beanbag or in the recliner with me rocking. I try to get him to lay down and its a fight so I only try like once a week and he use to just go to his bed and fall asleep by himself. I would so like to know what happened so I could "fix" it for him tho I am sure its genetic too working out some would have to make it a little easier I would think. ... Is therapy the only thing right now that I should be doing? [/QUOTE]
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