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<blockquote data-quote="judytor" data-source="post: 217350" data-attributes="member: 5400"><p>I am of the belief that not all parenting techniques work for all children. I don't think time outs (forced time outs), are helpful for all children. They may be helpful for some but not all.</p><p></p><p>When I say they don't work for my son it's because I've seen first hand how he responds to<em> me</em> holding him in time out. It's a trust issue. </p><p>Like I said before, we are implementing the CPS model (collaborative problem solving) that is described in the book "The Explosive Child". It talks about time outs not working for explosive children. Time outs do not teach the skills of flexibility and frustration tolerance and that's what we need to teach our son right now. I hope that makes sense. It's hard to explain it without going into more detail but there is a sticky here with adapting the Explosive child for the younger child. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="judytor, post: 217350, member: 5400"] I am of the belief that not all parenting techniques work for all children. I don't think time outs (forced time outs), are helpful for all children. They may be helpful for some but not all. When I say they don't work for my son it's because I've seen first hand how he responds to[I] me[/I] holding him in time out. It's a trust issue. Like I said before, we are implementing the CPS model (collaborative problem solving) that is described in the book "The Explosive Child". It talks about time outs not working for explosive children. Time outs do not teach the skills of flexibility and frustration tolerance and that's what we need to teach our son right now. I hope that makes sense. It's hard to explain it without going into more detail but there is a sticky here with adapting the Explosive child for the younger child. :) [/QUOTE]
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