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<blockquote data-quote="WannabeAgoodFather" data-source="post: 706565" data-attributes="member: 21165"><p>OK... Survived another weekend... I feel like I am writing a "Fiction Novel". Wife went on a serious drinking run for few days and it really hurt me to witness for 4 days in a row. She literally passed out early night for 4 straight days... On the date night on Saturday, she stayed in the bathroom for 30 minutes. Sunday morning while I was taking a shower, my wife came in to bathroom and said "Alcohol isn't working at all for me and I need to cut down and stop" When she said that, it really made my day. I was miserable for few days going through because of her drinking due to 1. She drinks everyday anyway. 2. Her dialogue between her son makes her very upset. As usual, I did not say anything but she questioned me that I was not in a good mood. I almost said "Do you even know what I have to deal with when you drink and witness all the things happen?" but I did not. When I see that she had too much, it is better to leave her alone as she will try to get into arguments whatever I say. I learned my lesson.</p><p></p><p>My wife tried to confront me on Friday regarding canceling her son's health insurance. She said we discussed it but I did not give the exact date. I told her I sent out a message to her son in July that the insurance would be cancelled so that he needed to find Obama care or whatever. Gave him 5 months to prepare as I finally canceled it at the end of December. It is not something I did it out of nowhere. She sent me "not nice" texts but I replied with explanations.</p><p></p><p>My wife agreed and made no more comments. I have not seen my stepson for over a week so no idea what he's up to. Since my wife is very upset, I assume that things aren't going well between the two. I saw my wife going in and out his room a lot more these days, therefore they are in some sort of communication. I see her checking up on him constantly. I just hope she gives him right advise and make him a responsible 22 year old. I know he would not stop smoking and other substance (I do not have proof but am sure he is on something) but hope that son knows his mother is worried. My wife stopped discussing things regarding her son with me as I always give out straight, constant things that she knows that I will not bend. He doesn't come home early at nights and it has been like that for a while. My prediction is that he doesn't want to participate in any family activities (in a protest mode) and doesn't want to hear any things from his mother in person. Mother believes that he works late at night delivering dominos but I know he isn't. On the final stretch to Super Bowl and NBA is in the middle of season, he will not work. NBA and NFL are the most important things besides smoking. If he really woke up and worked as his mother believes, I am really happy for him and support him. His expensive taste in clothes, shoes and other things have not stopped. I just saw a box with "Bape" T shirts. I deal with that brand for my business so I know how much they are. $120 - $200 T shirts and "Supreme" stuff that he loves... I saw that he sold his brand new x-box. He shouted at us few years ago when mother confronted him dealing with "Craig's List" and strangers keep coming to our house. He said to us "You have no idea what I do and how much money I could make through the site. I could make $5000 easily a month trading things on Craig's List" Well... if you can make that much cash, then move out, do whatever you want and design your own life instead of living under parent's roof when you are 22 is what I say....</p><p></p><p>Kids go through lots of things as everyone does until you literally mature. I was a spoiled rotten for years but had to obey, follow and listen to parents on the other side. He only wants everything on his term that makes confrontation. I do not think he realizes it yet.</p><p></p><p>I am going on a business trip this week so I will not be there if something happens. Crossing my fingers nothing happens...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="WannabeAgoodFather, post: 706565, member: 21165"] OK... Survived another weekend... I feel like I am writing a "Fiction Novel". Wife went on a serious drinking run for few days and it really hurt me to witness for 4 days in a row. She literally passed out early night for 4 straight days... On the date night on Saturday, she stayed in the bathroom for 30 minutes. Sunday morning while I was taking a shower, my wife came in to bathroom and said "Alcohol isn't working at all for me and I need to cut down and stop" When she said that, it really made my day. I was miserable for few days going through because of her drinking due to 1. She drinks everyday anyway. 2. Her dialogue between her son makes her very upset. As usual, I did not say anything but she questioned me that I was not in a good mood. I almost said "Do you even know what I have to deal with when you drink and witness all the things happen?" but I did not. When I see that she had too much, it is better to leave her alone as she will try to get into arguments whatever I say. I learned my lesson. My wife tried to confront me on Friday regarding canceling her son's health insurance. She said we discussed it but I did not give the exact date. I told her I sent out a message to her son in July that the insurance would be cancelled so that he needed to find Obama care or whatever. Gave him 5 months to prepare as I finally canceled it at the end of December. It is not something I did it out of nowhere. She sent me "not nice" texts but I replied with explanations. My wife agreed and made no more comments. I have not seen my stepson for over a week so no idea what he's up to. Since my wife is very upset, I assume that things aren't going well between the two. I saw my wife going in and out his room a lot more these days, therefore they are in some sort of communication. I see her checking up on him constantly. I just hope she gives him right advise and make him a responsible 22 year old. I know he would not stop smoking and other substance (I do not have proof but am sure he is on something) but hope that son knows his mother is worried. My wife stopped discussing things regarding her son with me as I always give out straight, constant things that she knows that I will not bend. He doesn't come home early at nights and it has been like that for a while. My prediction is that he doesn't want to participate in any family activities (in a protest mode) and doesn't want to hear any things from his mother in person. Mother believes that he works late at night delivering dominos but I know he isn't. On the final stretch to Super Bowl and NBA is in the middle of season, he will not work. NBA and NFL are the most important things besides smoking. If he really woke up and worked as his mother believes, I am really happy for him and support him. His expensive taste in clothes, shoes and other things have not stopped. I just saw a box with "Bape" T shirts. I deal with that brand for my business so I know how much they are. $120 - $200 T shirts and "Supreme" stuff that he loves... I saw that he sold his brand new x-box. He shouted at us few years ago when mother confronted him dealing with "Craig's List" and strangers keep coming to our house. He said to us "You have no idea what I do and how much money I could make through the site. I could make $5000 easily a month trading things on Craig's List" Well... if you can make that much cash, then move out, do whatever you want and design your own life instead of living under parent's roof when you are 22 is what I say.... Kids go through lots of things as everyone does until you literally mature. I was a spoiled rotten for years but had to obey, follow and listen to parents on the other side. He only wants everything on his term that makes confrontation. I do not think he realizes it yet. I am going on a business trip this week so I will not be there if something happens. Crossing my fingers nothing happens... [/QUOTE]
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