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<blockquote data-quote="Bunny" data-source="post: 495761"><p>Hi, Mary, and welcome to the board.</p><p></p><p>Alot of people (family members, friends, parents of other kids who are PCs) who have no idea what it is like to have to parent a difficult child will always say that it's a lack of discipline. I was told that by the social worker in difficult child's elementary school. In other words: it's your fault. <strong>DO NOT BELIEVE THEM!!!!!</strong> This is not your fault in any way. It took me years to finally get that through my head. I felt like a failure for a very long time, but then someone said to me that if I was truly a failure easy child would behave the same way that difficult child does. Plus, you said that difficult child is basically a good kid.</p><p></p><p>If husband does not want to spend any more money on getting difficult child tested what does he think needs to be done?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Bunny, post: 495761"] Hi, Mary, and welcome to the board. Alot of people (family members, friends, parents of other kids who are PCs) who have no idea what it is like to have to parent a difficult child will always say that it's a lack of discipline. I was told that by the social worker in difficult child's elementary school. In other words: it's your fault. [B]DO NOT BELIEVE THEM!!!!![/B] This is not your fault in any way. It took me years to finally get that through my head. I felt like a failure for a very long time, but then someone said to me that if I was truly a failure easy child would behave the same way that difficult child does. Plus, you said that difficult child is basically a good kid. If husband does not want to spend any more money on getting difficult child tested what does he think needs to be done? [/QUOTE]
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