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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 494410" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>Then she needs a very thorough evaluation for PTSD, trauma, etc- you need to get her to a children's treatment center and tell them there is reason to think this could have happened and tell them what she's doing- this could be it.</p><p></p><p>She's not knowing who to blame- she's blaming the person who is there. Try hard to let it roll and not hurt but not give into it. Once it becomes know to the professionals that there was likely a sexual abuse, the tables should turn. Just make sure you are getting to qualified professionals- medicaid can get her a lot of services that private insurance can't- if you can't get to anyone "higher" easily, call a domestic violence shelter and tell them you have just realized that you think this really could have happened. Were those accusations ever documented with DSS or the courts or anywhere- a doctor- anyone? (I'm only asking because it will help give credibility to what you're telling them now since it sounds like they've been running you thru the wringer.)</p><p></p><p>Another thing- if anything hitting crisis-mode happens that could possibly cause danger to herself or to you or anyone else, you can call for an ambulance to take her to a psychiatric hospital. I know that sounds horrible too but many of us have had to do that. In this state, even "deterioartion of functioning" qualifies a parent to do this and for emergency medical services to transport her and get her to a safe hospital. Your daughter clearly has deterioration of functioning. I don't know if that would qualify for transport in your state or not.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 494410, member: 3699"] Then she needs a very thorough evaluation for PTSD, trauma, etc- you need to get her to a children's treatment center and tell them there is reason to think this could have happened and tell them what she's doing- this could be it. She's not knowing who to blame- she's blaming the person who is there. Try hard to let it roll and not hurt but not give into it. Once it becomes know to the professionals that there was likely a sexual abuse, the tables should turn. Just make sure you are getting to qualified professionals- medicaid can get her a lot of services that private insurance can't- if you can't get to anyone "higher" easily, call a domestic violence shelter and tell them you have just realized that you think this really could have happened. Were those accusations ever documented with DSS or the courts or anywhere- a doctor- anyone? (I'm only asking because it will help give credibility to what you're telling them now since it sounds like they've been running you thru the wringer.) Another thing- if anything hitting crisis-mode happens that could possibly cause danger to herself or to you or anyone else, you can call for an ambulance to take her to a psychiatric hospital. I know that sounds horrible too but many of us have had to do that. In this state, even "deterioartion of functioning" qualifies a parent to do this and for emergency medical services to transport her and get her to a safe hospital. Your daughter clearly has deterioration of functioning. I don't know if that would qualify for transport in your state or not. [/QUOTE]
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