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<blockquote data-quote="Childofmine" data-source="post: 641978" data-attributes="member: 17542"><p>TE, warm hugs. </p><p></p><p>As you live in the not-knowing, instead of being paralyzed by it, try to start a daily practice. Start reading for a few minutes some of the authors RE mentions in her post above. </p><p></p><p>Write down your thoughts for a few more minutes. Expand it into a daily practice. </p><p></p><p>This will start to take root in your mind and heart. Even if you hear from him, keep on doing it. </p><p></p><p>Recovery from enabling takes time and work and daily practices. When we are feeling better, often we stop. When we are feeling paralyzed, we stop. </p><p></p><p>I don't really understand it, but I do know that implementing daily practices, like a gratitude list, taking naps, buying flowers for the table, reading and writing...will change you. It has changed me. </p><p></p><p>Even in the midst of awfulness and terrible uncertainty, we can be okay, if we learn how to be okay. It is very freeing and will spill over into all areas of your life. You will be a happier person all the way around.</p><p></p><p>It is a true mystery, but it is true.</p><p></p><p>Having said all of that, I hope you hear from him soon.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Childofmine, post: 641978, member: 17542"] TE, warm hugs. As you live in the not-knowing, instead of being paralyzed by it, try to start a daily practice. Start reading for a few minutes some of the authors RE mentions in her post above. Write down your thoughts for a few more minutes. Expand it into a daily practice. This will start to take root in your mind and heart. Even if you hear from him, keep on doing it. Recovery from enabling takes time and work and daily practices. When we are feeling better, often we stop. When we are feeling paralyzed, we stop. I don't really understand it, but I do know that implementing daily practices, like a gratitude list, taking naps, buying flowers for the table, reading and writing...will change you. It has changed me. Even in the midst of awfulness and terrible uncertainty, we can be okay, if we learn how to be okay. It is very freeing and will spill over into all areas of your life. You will be a happier person all the way around. It is a true mystery, but it is true. Having said all of that, I hope you hear from him soon. [/QUOTE]
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