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Not feeling clear on detachment for adult child
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<blockquote data-quote="Payla" data-source="post: 578163" data-attributes="member: 15160"><p>Thank you Tired and Siobhan for your support. I am sorry for what you are also suffering through. I had an emotionally rough encounter with difficult child last night. He saw me so distaught and it does not make any difference: he is right back calling me at work for more money. I do have a restaining order on him and could bring records of the calls to police but I don't have it in me today to go through that process. I am going to ignore the calls and they will most likely escalate. If he calls our home later I will let my husband deal with him. I had a long conversation with my middle easy child son last night and he gave me some perspective. It is virtually certain that every bit of money I give him is going directly or indirectly to drugs. He is miserable in his life and what else could be keeping him in that misery? So no more money. He will end up in jail sooner or later, and that is probably what he needs. I dont even want to take his dog if he offers to go to rehab; it is just one more way for him to keep the communication going between us. Uggghhhh.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Payla, post: 578163, member: 15160"] Thank you Tired and Siobhan for your support. I am sorry for what you are also suffering through. I had an emotionally rough encounter with difficult child last night. He saw me so distaught and it does not make any difference: he is right back calling me at work for more money. I do have a restaining order on him and could bring records of the calls to police but I don't have it in me today to go through that process. I am going to ignore the calls and they will most likely escalate. If he calls our home later I will let my husband deal with him. I had a long conversation with my middle easy child son last night and he gave me some perspective. It is virtually certain that every bit of money I give him is going directly or indirectly to drugs. He is miserable in his life and what else could be keeping him in that misery? So no more money. He will end up in jail sooner or later, and that is probably what he needs. I dont even want to take his dog if he offers to go to rehab; it is just one more way for him to keep the communication going between us. Uggghhhh. [/QUOTE]
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