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<blockquote data-quote="TerryJ2" data-source="post: 240162" data-attributes="member: 3419"><p>Hi Tryingtohelp,</p><p>welcome.</p><p>It's great you are helping out like this. It gives her mother a break, and it gives your daughter an additional reinforcement that no matter where she is, her behavior will not be tolerated.</p><p> </p><p>I love the way you underplay her effect on you, saying "She's trying my patience," and "her behavior is irritating." You must be really good at detachment!</p><p> </p><p>Do not second guess your own discipline. Stick to your guns. If you say you are going to take away something, take it away. If you say you are going to reward her, then reward her. With all the "noise" that's going on in her head, she needs consistency.</p><p> </p><p>Seems like she needs intensive psychiatric therapy and some medications, too. </p><p>You are in very good company here.</p><p> </p><p>Oh, by the way, with-a diagnosis of conduct disorder, it seems like she would have other issues ... maybe bipolar or something? Is she adopted?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TerryJ2, post: 240162, member: 3419"] Hi Tryingtohelp, welcome. It's great you are helping out like this. It gives her mother a break, and it gives your daughter an additional reinforcement that no matter where she is, her behavior will not be tolerated. I love the way you underplay her effect on you, saying "She's trying my patience," and "her behavior is irritating." You must be really good at detachment! Do not second guess your own discipline. Stick to your guns. If you say you are going to take away something, take it away. If you say you are going to reward her, then reward her. With all the "noise" that's going on in her head, she needs consistency. Seems like she needs intensive psychiatric therapy and some medications, too. You are in very good company here. Oh, by the way, with-a diagnosis of conduct disorder, it seems like she would have other issues ... maybe bipolar or something? Is she adopted? [/QUOTE]
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