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HH,  I agree that you shuold not help your difficult child get to the prom.  No money, no tux, no nothing.  When he asks why just say "because it isn't your prom. You gave your rights to go to it up when you refused to go to school." 


I would not bring easy child into the conversation because he will then have anamosity toward her and might try harder to spoil her good time.  As far as the bathroom thing goes lay down a time schedule and if he cannot abide by it then out he goes.  We all slip once in a while but it is imperative that we maintain a firm stance when dealing with our difficult children.  -RM


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