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<blockquote data-quote="Dixies_fire" data-source="post: 596094" data-attributes="member: 16184"><p>I mis worded myself. In my opinion confronting her about the bisexuality or same sex tendencies is forcing her to lie, because the consequences are she is not allowed to have a social life.</p><p></p><p>Of course you aren't making her be a liar, or sneaky, my kid is sneaky too. But to use an example. "If you like girls then no more sleep overs here and you can't spend the night with other girls" "nope mom I like boys" too easy, because she knows it would be a social life ender to tell you the truth.</p><p></p><p>I struggle with my difficult child and truth telling and sneaky behavior also. Sometimes I will reward truth telling on small issues like "did you eat that pop tart? Tell me the truth and there's no consequences, lie and I will be angry." Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't. I want her to be able to tell me the truth at least about how she feels.</p><p></p><p>Sorry that you still feel like she is lying.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Dixies_fire, post: 596094, member: 16184"] I mis worded myself. In my opinion confronting her about the bisexuality or same sex tendencies is forcing her to lie, because the consequences are she is not allowed to have a social life. Of course you aren't making her be a liar, or sneaky, my kid is sneaky too. But to use an example. "If you like girls then no more sleep overs here and you can't spend the night with other girls" "nope mom I like boys" too easy, because she knows it would be a social life ender to tell you the truth. I struggle with my difficult child and truth telling and sneaky behavior also. Sometimes I will reward truth telling on small issues like "did you eat that pop tart? Tell me the truth and there's no consequences, lie and I will be angry." Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't. I want her to be able to tell me the truth at least about how she feels. Sorry that you still feel like she is lying. [/QUOTE]
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