Thanks for your replies! I only have a second before leaving for work..
He did say don't worry about me I am fine....
Not making any decisions but, I am leaning toward asking him to contact the Canaan land program.
What ever time he has to serve, he could work out a year of it there.
He has to want it and work toward it. But I believe it would help him.
One year program. He works and gets a certifiable trade. They grow their own food and have a self supporting community of men trying to make a change in their lives.
It is not a subsitute for jail, but they work with the court system.
I'm thinking of mailing the info and just seeing what he does with it.
I have suggested it before only to be told he wouldn't give up a whole year of his life to the program....I will see if it has changed.
Thanks guys, I really don't know what I would do with out you all
Traci