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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 746022" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Copa, wow, that explained it so well.</p><p></p><p>Even a month clean is too soon, not long enough.</p><p></p><p>My daughter was clean over a year before we crossed our fingers. Not using for a short while is not being out of the woods.</p><p></p><p>I agree that intention is everything. If you dont use for three days but also dont seek long term help to keep it up, that is very weak intention.</p><p></p><p>I cant explain it but you will recognize a change in mindset and true intention. The person changes tremendously. Hard to draw a picture.</p><p></p><p>You just can not throw a party because a person says he is clean for a week but is doing nothing to support sobriety. That isnt a long time and he is not doing anything to find the support and strength to really sustain total abstience.</p><p></p><p>Love and light!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 746022, member: 1550"] Copa, wow, that explained it so well. Even a month clean is too soon, not long enough. My daughter was clean over a year before we crossed our fingers. Not using for a short while is not being out of the woods. I agree that intention is everything. If you dont use for three days but also dont seek long term help to keep it up, that is very weak intention. I cant explain it but you will recognize a change in mindset and true intention. The person changes tremendously. Hard to draw a picture. You just can not throw a party because a person says he is clean for a week but is doing nothing to support sobriety. That isnt a long time and he is not doing anything to find the support and strength to really sustain total abstience. Love and light! [/QUOTE]
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