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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 678395" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>I want to put this because it is important.</p><p></p><p>M is kinder than I am. Not because he <em>is kinder</em> but because he is strong enough to have hope and to risk fueled by hope.</p><p></p><p>He believes we have to do the right thing by my son. Even if the gains are minuscule. </p><p></p><p>I get easily burned. Absolutes are much easier for me. I have a hard time staying steady state when there are shades of gray. But in theory I see the need for it. </p><p></p><p>But I can see the need, too, for our children to feel the absolute negation of their moral messiness and how it impacts us and our lives--let alone theirs. (I am getting mad here.)</p><p></p><p>What can I say? I live with M. I depend on him one hundred percent. I trust him. I trust his instincts. I respect him. If he felt the right call was as he called it, so do I.</p><p></p><p>There is no single right thing to do. In all situations and at all times. That is why this is so, so hard.</p><p></p><p>We love them. What can I say?</p><p></p><p>COPA</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 678395, member: 18958"] I want to put this because it is important. M is kinder than I am. Not because he [I]is kinder[/I] but because he is strong enough to have hope and to risk fueled by hope. He believes we have to do the right thing by my son. Even if the gains are minuscule. I get easily burned. Absolutes are much easier for me. I have a hard time staying steady state when there are shades of gray. But in theory I see the need for it. But I can see the need, too, for our children to feel the absolute negation of their moral messiness and how it impacts us and our lives--let alone theirs. (I am getting mad here.) What can I say? I live with M. I depend on him one hundred percent. I trust him. I trust his instincts. I respect him. If he felt the right call was as he called it, so do I. There is no single right thing to do. In all situations and at all times. That is why this is so, so hard. We love them. What can I say? COPA [/QUOTE]
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