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<blockquote data-quote="Feeling Sad" data-source="post: 678792" data-attributes="member: 19245"><p>Your son has gone to a psychologist in the past, right?</p><p></p><p>Maybe he could get a case management team to help him. They would help him find housing or a job. They are free. Advice would be coming from someone else, not you.</p><p></p><p>I do not feel that they purposely turn themselves into beggars for pity. I do not feel that you stayed in bed on purpose.</p><p></p><p>You both need space to heal. He needs to find a place that is out if your town. He needs guidance to achieve this goal.</p><p></p><p>Does his SSI check give him enough funds for an apartment? Often, it is just enough for a room. He needs help applying for a place, as well as, writing a resume and applying for a job.</p><p></p><p>Lastly, he needs counseling to 'quiet' his unwarranted fears of conspiracies, so that he may have a better chance to succeed in these goals. Notice, I did not say eradicate, but rather 'quiet'.</p><p></p><p>You need each other, but you need your space.</p><p></p><p>No, you would not qualify for a restraining order. An eviction would take months. Do not threaten something that you cannot follow through on.</p><p></p><p>Write him a letter outlining his goals. This is way to difficult to place upon M's shoulders. Have M. give it to him. Love your son, but from a distance. They seem to take advice better from others who are not their parents. This is where the case management team would come into play.</p><p></p><p>Again, I am speaking from my perspective, warped as it may be.</p><p></p><p>Copa, you need to care for yourself and live freely. You need to heal and breathe. He needs to see the strong Copa again. He will then know that he, too, may succeed.</p><p></p><p>Sending out positive thoughts and strength to my warrior sister.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Feeling Sad, post: 678792, member: 19245"] Your son has gone to a psychologist in the past, right? Maybe he could get a case management team to help him. They would help him find housing or a job. They are free. Advice would be coming from someone else, not you. I do not feel that they purposely turn themselves into beggars for pity. I do not feel that you stayed in bed on purpose. You both need space to heal. He needs to find a place that is out if your town. He needs guidance to achieve this goal. Does his SSI check give him enough funds for an apartment? Often, it is just enough for a room. He needs help applying for a place, as well as, writing a resume and applying for a job. Lastly, he needs counseling to 'quiet' his unwarranted fears of conspiracies, so that he may have a better chance to succeed in these goals. Notice, I did not say eradicate, but rather 'quiet'. You need each other, but you need your space. No, you would not qualify for a restraining order. An eviction would take months. Do not threaten something that you cannot follow through on. Write him a letter outlining his goals. This is way to difficult to place upon M's shoulders. Have M. give it to him. Love your son, but from a distance. They seem to take advice better from others who are not their parents. This is where the case management team would come into play. Again, I am speaking from my perspective, warped as it may be. Copa, you need to care for yourself and live freely. You need to heal and breathe. He needs to see the strong Copa again. He will then know that he, too, may succeed. Sending out positive thoughts and strength to my warrior sister. [/QUOTE]
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