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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 219393" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>Not only am I not going to live this way, but I can't continue letting this kid think that HE can do this. It isn't just me- what is he going to grow up thinking? That he can do this to his wife someday? That this is permissable or he can get by with it? No, that line is drawn.</p><p></p><p>Now, the online site says that funding can be provided in emergency situations without the FAPT processes, but, a FAPT meeting would HAVE to take place within 14 days of that emergency. I don't know for sure, but I'm hoping that emergency doesn't just mean getting to a doctor. I just don't know who to call. The local menatal health clinic- you get put on a 3 mo waiting list, then go thru their intern todocs who know nothing, they lose files, it's a disaster, that would take at least a year before they got around to recommending anything. And, in that year, difficult child would be living here, seeing their so-called tdocs instead of his private one, and I end up taking him over there sitting and waiting for 4 hours for a scheduled 1 hour appointment. It pains me- if I had moved us to the next jurisdiction over, they actually have a competent group running things, but because I moved us here, we have to use this local clinic.</p><p></p><p>Ok, that was a vent. sorry.</p><p></p><p>I love him. I think he's more than a little salvageable, really. But I think it's going to take more than this to salvage him. And juvy isn't salvaging, at least not here.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 219393, member: 3699"] Not only am I not going to live this way, but I can't continue letting this kid think that HE can do this. It isn't just me- what is he going to grow up thinking? That he can do this to his wife someday? That this is permissable or he can get by with it? No, that line is drawn. Now, the online site says that funding can be provided in emergency situations without the FAPT processes, but, a FAPT meeting would HAVE to take place within 14 days of that emergency. I don't know for sure, but I'm hoping that emergency doesn't just mean getting to a doctor. I just don't know who to call. The local menatal health clinic- you get put on a 3 mo waiting list, then go thru their intern todocs who know nothing, they lose files, it's a disaster, that would take at least a year before they got around to recommending anything. And, in that year, difficult child would be living here, seeing their so-called tdocs instead of his private one, and I end up taking him over there sitting and waiting for 4 hours for a scheduled 1 hour appointment. It pains me- if I had moved us to the next jurisdiction over, they actually have a competent group running things, but because I moved us here, we have to use this local clinic. Ok, that was a vent. sorry. I love him. I think he's more than a little salvageable, really. But I think it's going to take more than this to salvage him. And juvy isn't salvaging, at least not here. [/QUOTE]
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