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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 219658" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I am sorry things are going so badly. I know that you think the processes are BS and possibly damaging. However, you simply are NOT going to get much help unless you are willing to do at least some of the carp that the agencies require.</p><p> </p><p>I reallly think it is time to find an Residential Treatment Center (RTC) for your son, then go to the judge and tell him your son is ill and dangerous and needs placement in X Residential Treatment Center (RTC). Ask the judge to order difficult child to the Residential Treatment Center (RTC).</p><p> </p><p>If you do not, he IS going to hurt you, and possibly seriously. the thing with the hammer is scary.</p><p> </p><p>MOST placements will NOT take a child with-o a court order. At least here.</p><p> </p><p>I don't think there is any way you are going to get the help you need with-o the court. Even foster homes must be court ordered. </p><p> </p><p>It may be useful to call your insurance and tell an intake person in the behavioral health section (what they call mental health) what is going on - the threats, school refusal, etc....They MIGHT have some option. If they do have an option and you can get difficult child there, then you may have to refuse to take him home until they see his behaviors.</p><p> </p><p>If you know what triggers him, it just might pay you to do those things in the psychiatric hospital early on, so they can SEE him threatening you.</p><p> </p><p>There just are not many other options.</p><p> </p><p>I am sorry.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 219658, member: 1233"] I am sorry things are going so badly. I know that you think the processes are BS and possibly damaging. However, you simply are NOT going to get much help unless you are willing to do at least some of the carp that the agencies require. I reallly think it is time to find an Residential Treatment Center (RTC) for your son, then go to the judge and tell him your son is ill and dangerous and needs placement in X Residential Treatment Center (RTC). Ask the judge to order difficult child to the Residential Treatment Center (RTC). If you do not, he IS going to hurt you, and possibly seriously. the thing with the hammer is scary. MOST placements will NOT take a child with-o a court order. At least here. I don't think there is any way you are going to get the help you need with-o the court. Even foster homes must be court ordered. It may be useful to call your insurance and tell an intake person in the behavioral health section (what they call mental health) what is going on - the threats, school refusal, etc....They MIGHT have some option. If they do have an option and you can get difficult child there, then you may have to refuse to take him home until they see his behaviors. If you know what triggers him, it just might pay you to do those things in the psychiatric hospital early on, so they can SEE him threatening you. There just are not many other options. I am sorry. [/QUOTE]
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