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(NPD) Adult Son and (NPD) Narcissitic Mother Living Together Father Wants Son Out
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 714026" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>The only way your father can have his way from what I know is to file for divorce. Even then it is no sure thing. At all. The assets will be divided up 50/50. I dont think anyone can force mom to sell house.</p><p></p><p>This is not something you or dad can do anything about and I believe as long as they are legally married, Dad cant force her or brother to leave.</p><p></p><p>Everyone is too old for forced psychiatric care. Forget that part of it. Your non medical diagnosis of the situation will not be taken into consideration. No offense. Just how it is. Even if she is really a narcicist, that wont legally get her thrown out. Your brother is grown up. Even if you think she damages him, true or not, he is responsible for his life at his age.</p><p></p><p>A big disadvantage to dad is that he left the house. I know that in Family Court, he who leaves is at a big disadvantage as far as getting the house, no matter how hard it was to live there.</p><p></p><p>in my opinion best you can do is to keep moving on with your life. Your father will have to decide if he wants to get divorced and see what assets end up in his hands.</p><p></p><p>Sometimes what we think is fair is just not legal. Dad cant make anyone leave since the house belongs to both. Also Son would probably need to be legally evicted (i am thinking by both) since that is his residence.</p><p></p><p>There is no simple, cheap answer. You, Uncles, kissing cousins....legally you and they have no dog in this fight.</p><p></p><p>Your dad has to take action. Or not. And there is no guarantee of the outcome. Mom could be awarded the house in a divorce. Or not. He married her and is still married. All their marital assets, as far as I know, belong to both of them unless there is a divorce. The usual division is 50/50 and personalities are not taken into consideration. Divorce is no fault.</p><p></p><p>Dad should check with a lawyer. You say he has one. Obviously nothing is happening. in my opinion nothing will happen. Legally a Judge wont tell a wife to move out and the son is a legal resident of the house...that is why you have a lawyer, but are looking for advice here. Nobody is legally wrong regarding Mom and Brother. Court is not based on emotions, just the law.</p><p></p><p>Keep on thriving. The only person you have control over in your family (or anywhere else) is you. Stay out of family drama and build a better life for yourself. You can not take care of your father. He is an adult.</p><p></p><p>Good luck!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 714026, member: 1550"] The only way your father can have his way from what I know is to file for divorce. Even then it is no sure thing. At all. The assets will be divided up 50/50. I dont think anyone can force mom to sell house. This is not something you or dad can do anything about and I believe as long as they are legally married, Dad cant force her or brother to leave. Everyone is too old for forced psychiatric care. Forget that part of it. Your non medical diagnosis of the situation will not be taken into consideration. No offense. Just how it is. Even if she is really a narcicist, that wont legally get her thrown out. Your brother is grown up. Even if you think she damages him, true or not, he is responsible for his life at his age. A big disadvantage to dad is that he left the house. I know that in Family Court, he who leaves is at a big disadvantage as far as getting the house, no matter how hard it was to live there. in my opinion best you can do is to keep moving on with your life. Your father will have to decide if he wants to get divorced and see what assets end up in his hands. Sometimes what we think is fair is just not legal. Dad cant make anyone leave since the house belongs to both. Also Son would probably need to be legally evicted (i am thinking by both) since that is his residence. There is no simple, cheap answer. You, Uncles, kissing cousins....legally you and they have no dog in this fight. Your dad has to take action. Or not. And there is no guarantee of the outcome. Mom could be awarded the house in a divorce. Or not. He married her and is still married. All their marital assets, as far as I know, belong to both of them unless there is a divorce. The usual division is 50/50 and personalities are not taken into consideration. Divorce is no fault. Dad should check with a lawyer. You say he has one. Obviously nothing is happening. in my opinion nothing will happen. Legally a Judge wont tell a wife to move out and the son is a legal resident of the house...that is why you have a lawyer, but are looking for advice here. Nobody is legally wrong regarding Mom and Brother. Court is not based on emotions, just the law. Keep on thriving. The only person you have control over in your family (or anywhere else) is you. Stay out of family drama and build a better life for yourself. You can not take care of your father. He is an adult. Good luck! [/QUOTE]
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