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<blockquote data-quote="orcaauntie" data-source="post: 457141" data-attributes="member: 12721"><p>She is diagnosis with ADHD. I have asked my Mom if she has had an evaluation done (as another poster recommended). I assume she has since she's been in counseling and diagnosis with ADHD. However, she may not have. I agree that there are underlying issues that need to be fixed and one of those issues is communication. There has been a breakdown in such between her and my Mom. I hope it can be fixed. Otherwise the real problems lie with feeling abandoned/neglected by your own Mother. That is tough to "fix", if it can be done. The other problem is feeling like your little sister is the "princess". </p><p>In speaking with my Niece last night, she told me that her old counselor left for a new job. She doesn't like her new counselor. She liked the old one. Apparently her old counselor also told her that she didn't need anymore counseling, and that she was "normal". There's another problem. She obviously needs counseling still. She needs to discuss what is bothering her with someone in order to overcome it.</p><p>I agree that moving her again is asking for trouble. However, keeping her there is also asking for trouble. She has access to her Mom- whether by sneaking around, or through the supervised visitations, which is toxic, as well as her friends who are a bad crowd. *Rock and a hard place*.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="orcaauntie, post: 457141, member: 12721"] She is diagnosis with ADHD. I have asked my Mom if she has had an evaluation done (as another poster recommended). I assume she has since she's been in counseling and diagnosis with ADHD. However, she may not have. I agree that there are underlying issues that need to be fixed and one of those issues is communication. There has been a breakdown in such between her and my Mom. I hope it can be fixed. Otherwise the real problems lie with feeling abandoned/neglected by your own Mother. That is tough to "fix", if it can be done. The other problem is feeling like your little sister is the "princess". In speaking with my Niece last night, she told me that her old counselor left for a new job. She doesn't like her new counselor. She liked the old one. Apparently her old counselor also told her that she didn't need anymore counseling, and that she was "normal". There's another problem. She obviously needs counseling still. She needs to discuss what is bothering her with someone in order to overcome it. I agree that moving her again is asking for trouble. However, keeping her there is also asking for trouble. She has access to her Mom- whether by sneaking around, or through the supervised visitations, which is toxic, as well as her friends who are a bad crowd. *Rock and a hard place*. [/QUOTE]
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