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Oh, the irony of it all (Jaden)
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 754115" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>I want to again thank everyone for making me feel less awful for helping Amy find a way to take Kay's son from him (and in such a way that Kay believes it was her decision,). I am not like this...deceitful. Amy isn't either. We both feel badly that it came to this. And I feel a little guilty. I don't think Amy feels guilty. She adores her cute little dimpled nephew and has scorn for how Kay has treated him.</p><p></p><p>In no way is this a done deal. We have to hope that the legal world is good to us as we step into it and with Lee and Kay driving out to California to be homeless in their camper, I'm not even sure HOW we will make it legal. Where to file. Right now Kay can decide to come back and swipe Jaden legally.</p><p></p><p>We are hoping that Kay starts to really like California, which is farrrr away, and also realize that she was very inconvenienced taking even minimal care of Jaden. She, at heart, is not a motherly person.</p><p></p><p>Amy works full time, grueling, hours, but our relative who will be sitting for Jaden is a retired teacher, not that familiar with autism, but she will listen to the professionals who will come to work with Jaden. So she will try to follow what they tell her to do. Dear Auntie. Never married, no kids, but her nieces and nephews adore her, as did her students. We are fortunate to have a large, loving family with many talented and kind relatives and we try to help one another.</p><p></p><p>Today I am counting my blessings and giving the entire situation to God. I look forward to Sunday. Church and then we are all going to Amy's for dinner so I get to see ALL the grands.</p><p></p><p>For now, things are good. Of course, Kay could ruin that at any time. We are working in the background to see if we can stop that threat.</p><p></p><p>Honestly, Jaden is a mess. He is four and can't say much. He has meltdowns. He sleeps poorly. Eats with his hands! He is more like a two year old. Lots will need to be done to help him. But he is sweet and cuddly too. Kay was never sweet or cuddly. His little heart is in the right place! He says "Gug oo" all the time. That means love you! And his smile lights a room. He is beautiful, like Kay.</p><p></p><p>Blessings to everyone!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 754115, member: 23706"] I want to again thank everyone for making me feel less awful for helping Amy find a way to take Kay's son from him (and in such a way that Kay believes it was her decision,). I am not like this...deceitful. Amy isn't either. We both feel badly that it came to this. And I feel a little guilty. I don't think Amy feels guilty. She adores her cute little dimpled nephew and has scorn for how Kay has treated him. In no way is this a done deal. We have to hope that the legal world is good to us as we step into it and with Lee and Kay driving out to California to be homeless in their camper, I'm not even sure HOW we will make it legal. Where to file. Right now Kay can decide to come back and swipe Jaden legally. We are hoping that Kay starts to really like California, which is farrrr away, and also realize that she was very inconvenienced taking even minimal care of Jaden. She, at heart, is not a motherly person. Amy works full time, grueling, hours, but our relative who will be sitting for Jaden is a retired teacher, not that familiar with autism, but she will listen to the professionals who will come to work with Jaden. So she will try to follow what they tell her to do. Dear Auntie. Never married, no kids, but her nieces and nephews adore her, as did her students. We are fortunate to have a large, loving family with many talented and kind relatives and we try to help one another. Today I am counting my blessings and giving the entire situation to God. I look forward to Sunday. Church and then we are all going to Amy's for dinner so I get to see ALL the grands. For now, things are good. Of course, Kay could ruin that at any time. We are working in the background to see if we can stop that threat. Honestly, Jaden is a mess. He is four and can't say much. He has meltdowns. He sleeps poorly. Eats with his hands! He is more like a two year old. Lots will need to be done to help him. But he is sweet and cuddly too. Kay was never sweet or cuddly. His little heart is in the right place! He says "Gug oo" all the time. That means love you! And his smile lights a room. He is beautiful, like Kay. Blessings to everyone! [/QUOTE]
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