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<blockquote data-quote="Marcie Mac" data-source="post: 85830" data-attributes="member: 47"><p>Lost, his actions alone made his house empty - nothing to do with you although his family is seeming to want you to feel like you are the one that has done wrong.</p><p></p><p>If you are getting weak at the knees, bring up the memory of what he did to your difficult child that night, and to you. People who say they love you don't do that to people they love.</p><p></p><p>Its not your job to fix this - he has stuff he needs to do - if he wants his life back, his wife back, and BOTH kids, not just ONE, he needs to do the program. He needs to fight for his family, and that is does not include his mom or his sister calling you and relaying how bad he is feeling.</p><p></p><p>You and the children are worth fighting for, aren't you? - I hope he gets over his "woe is me" attitude. I went thru the same thing with my dex who actually had his sister fly here from England to try and patch things up - made me feel horrible about tossing him out, he had no relatives or any other family, blah blah. But keeping my youngest safe from him was my only priority.</p><p></p><p>Stay strong girl - your children need you to do that for them.</p><p></p><p>Marcie</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Marcie Mac, post: 85830, member: 47"] Lost, his actions alone made his house empty - nothing to do with you although his family is seeming to want you to feel like you are the one that has done wrong. If you are getting weak at the knees, bring up the memory of what he did to your difficult child that night, and to you. People who say they love you don't do that to people they love. Its not your job to fix this - he has stuff he needs to do - if he wants his life back, his wife back, and BOTH kids, not just ONE, he needs to do the program. He needs to fight for his family, and that is does not include his mom or his sister calling you and relaying how bad he is feeling. You and the children are worth fighting for, aren't you? - I hope he gets over his "woe is me" attitude. I went thru the same thing with my dex who actually had his sister fly here from England to try and patch things up - made me feel horrible about tossing him out, he had no relatives or any other family, blah blah. But keeping my youngest safe from him was my only priority. Stay strong girl - your children need you to do that for them. Marcie [/QUOTE]
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