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ok girls I need some pepp talk
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<blockquote data-quote="Big Bad Kitty" data-source="post: 85868" data-attributes="member: 3647"><p>(((hugs)))</p><p></p><p>First of all, you can hang up the phone when the sister (or his mom) calls to tell you what a "horrible" wife you are.</p><p></p><p>D/H is depressed because he has a disease that he is not addressing properly. You did not give him the disease, and you cannot cure it.</p><p></p><p>You can however take care of you and those kids. Make some time for Alanon. It MUST be a priority. The guilt and the codependency issues are all addressed there much better than we can here. You have GOT to take care of you, or you cannot be there for your </p><p>sons.</p><p></p><p>I think that you deserve a medal.You have come leaps and bounds since you first came on the board. Keep it up, and lean on us whenever. </p><p></p><p>Prayers.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Big Bad Kitty, post: 85868, member: 3647"] (((hugs))) First of all, you can hang up the phone when the sister (or his mom) calls to tell you what a "horrible" wife you are. D/H is depressed because he has a disease that he is not addressing properly. You did not give him the disease, and you cannot cure it. You can however take care of you and those kids. Make some time for Alanon. It MUST be a priority. The guilt and the codependency issues are all addressed there much better than we can here. You have GOT to take care of you, or you cannot be there for your sons. I think that you deserve a medal.You have come leaps and bounds since you first came on the board. Keep it up, and lean on us whenever. Prayers. [/QUOTE]
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