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Ok....I "don't get it"!
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<blockquote data-quote="lovelyboy" data-source="post: 441887" data-attributes="member: 8045"><p>Gentle questioning may get you answers. If you know the why, you will be better able to deal with it in a positive way. I can give you examples from my experience if you'd like.</p><p></p><p>I welcome any advise.....Interesting that you suggest questioning....have never thought of that actually?</p><p></p><p>Must say...I tried a new aproach today...it worked a little bit better...instead of getting angry or upset with him I tried some humor and maybe tickling, playing, pulling faces.....this actually defused some situations.....</p><p></p><p>What I do notice also....they went on an schoolouting again today and he complained of stomach ache when he got back....wanted just to cuddle up in a warm blanket and didn't care much about wanting to go and play with friends. I do think the outings causes sensory overload!</p><p></p><p>Also what I noticed was that when he goes to parties, he tends to be the observer and not partaker....watching from a distance.....doing his own thing.....Very interested to start of, but gets board( not in an aggressive way but passive way)....even when playing socker or cricket last year, he would start his own ' sword fights' or draw pictures in the sand instead of being wicket keeper! He will complain that he doesn't understand what's expected of him or that he got board.....</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="lovelyboy, post: 441887, member: 8045"] Gentle questioning may get you answers. If you know the why, you will be better able to deal with it in a positive way. I can give you examples from my experience if you'd like. I welcome any advise.....Interesting that you suggest questioning....have never thought of that actually? Must say...I tried a new aproach today...it worked a little bit better...instead of getting angry or upset with him I tried some humor and maybe tickling, playing, pulling faces.....this actually defused some situations..... What I do notice also....they went on an schoolouting again today and he complained of stomach ache when he got back....wanted just to cuddle up in a warm blanket and didn't care much about wanting to go and play with friends. I do think the outings causes sensory overload! Also what I noticed was that when he goes to parties, he tends to be the observer and not partaker....watching from a distance.....doing his own thing.....Very interested to start of, but gets board( not in an aggressive way but passive way)....even when playing socker or cricket last year, he would start his own ' sword fights' or draw pictures in the sand instead of being wicket keeper! He will complain that he doesn't understand what's expected of him or that he got board..... [/QUOTE]
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