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<blockquote data-quote="Marguerite" data-source="post: 132888" data-attributes="member: 1991"><p>She sounds like she's trying the 'shock and awe' methods to get a reaction from you, from school, from friends, from anybody, but inside she is still a confused kid.</p><p></p><p>"I will marry a rich man," eh? OK, kid, let's plan for that. First, the competition. Very few rich men are prepared to marry high school dropouts. You will need to be able to talk with him enough for him to get interested in you, enough for him to want to marry you and not just use you as a one-night stand. So you need to understand the sort of topics that rich men talk about.</p><p></p><p>If you think you can use sex to attract a rich man, you're wrong. Power and intelligence are more of an aphrodisiac to them. And if you think you can use sex, be aware that there are a lot of hookers out there with far more experience, far more willing to do whatever it takes, including some fairly gross stuff, to get their man. And yet somehow, they're all still walking the streets.</p><p></p><p>Therefore you will need to improve yourself in ways that will attract a rich man. You will also need to mingle in those circles - get a job at the stock market, or in the investment section of the bank. Think wealthy, dress wealthy, act powerful, build your own investment portfolio and JUST MAYBE, a rich man will be interested.</p><p></p><p>Or you could become a supermodel - first you need to be tall. Taller than average, as tall as most men. And you need to be proud of that height and walk tall, not slouch (which so many tall girls do). Next, you need a modelling course with the best. That costs money. So you will need to get a job to pay for this. The better-paying jobs go to high school graduates. OK, you don't want to deal with that, so maybe washing cars will work for you. If you're tall, you can reach the roof more easily anyway. It will take a lot of clean cars to cover modelling class fees, head shots, portfolio shots, agency fees etc, but it's another option.</p><p></p><p>Jen, do you see how it works? If she is serious about this option (and do treat it as if she is) then she has to do her homework. She needs to research the list of richest men in the world, find out who is married to them and how they met. What was the carer path of each of these wives? There are enough interviews, she can use this to find out just what she would have to do to not only marry a rich man, but keep him long enough to be able to afford a good lawyer to overturn the pre-nup.</p><p></p><p>Do the same with every suggestion, and if you find a chink of light somewhere that shows she really wants to go in that direction, then support her. She will likely change her mind, but that's OK. These ays a person can have many more careers in one working lifetime. And if she messes up school & college, she can always do it later. It's more difficult, but it can be done.</p><p></p><p>But no rich man will marry a girl who hasn't got a good work ethic. She needs to find this out for herself - she needs to work out A LOT of this for herself.</p><p></p><p>You also need to have some ground rules in place and some consequences you can really follow through with.</p><p></p><p>Thinking cap time.</p><p></p><p>Marg</p><p></p><p>Sorry for any typos, I'm actually running late - got a film preview to rush out and see!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Marguerite, post: 132888, member: 1991"] She sounds like she's trying the 'shock and awe' methods to get a reaction from you, from school, from friends, from anybody, but inside she is still a confused kid. "I will marry a rich man," eh? OK, kid, let's plan for that. First, the competition. Very few rich men are prepared to marry high school dropouts. You will need to be able to talk with him enough for him to get interested in you, enough for him to want to marry you and not just use you as a one-night stand. So you need to understand the sort of topics that rich men talk about. If you think you can use sex to attract a rich man, you're wrong. Power and intelligence are more of an aphrodisiac to them. And if you think you can use sex, be aware that there are a lot of hookers out there with far more experience, far more willing to do whatever it takes, including some fairly gross stuff, to get their man. And yet somehow, they're all still walking the streets. Therefore you will need to improve yourself in ways that will attract a rich man. You will also need to mingle in those circles - get a job at the stock market, or in the investment section of the bank. Think wealthy, dress wealthy, act powerful, build your own investment portfolio and JUST MAYBE, a rich man will be interested. Or you could become a supermodel - first you need to be tall. Taller than average, as tall as most men. And you need to be proud of that height and walk tall, not slouch (which so many tall girls do). Next, you need a modelling course with the best. That costs money. So you will need to get a job to pay for this. The better-paying jobs go to high school graduates. OK, you don't want to deal with that, so maybe washing cars will work for you. If you're tall, you can reach the roof more easily anyway. It will take a lot of clean cars to cover modelling class fees, head shots, portfolio shots, agency fees etc, but it's another option. Jen, do you see how it works? If she is serious about this option (and do treat it as if she is) then she has to do her homework. She needs to research the list of richest men in the world, find out who is married to them and how they met. What was the carer path of each of these wives? There are enough interviews, she can use this to find out just what she would have to do to not only marry a rich man, but keep him long enough to be able to afford a good lawyer to overturn the pre-nup. Do the same with every suggestion, and if you find a chink of light somewhere that shows she really wants to go in that direction, then support her. She will likely change her mind, but that's OK. These ays a person can have many more careers in one working lifetime. And if she messes up school & college, she can always do it later. It's more difficult, but it can be done. But no rich man will marry a girl who hasn't got a good work ethic. She needs to find this out for herself - she needs to work out A LOT of this for herself. You also need to have some ground rules in place and some consequences you can really follow through with. Thinking cap time. Marg Sorry for any typos, I'm actually running late - got a film preview to rush out and see! [/QUOTE]
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