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<blockquote data-quote="Fran" data-source="post: 35545" data-attributes="member: 3"><p>Sue, in my humble opinion and experience, you are entitled to your opinion. You don't have to buy or participate in anything that you don't like or find offensive. I believe you have a right to dictate the rules in your home.</p><p>I do believe you can not control what he does or how he looks. All you can do is voice your disapproval or disagreement, not participate by buying things you disapprove of and try to teach, redirect and reward good choices. </p><p>You have no real control over anyone but yourself. </p><p>If you saw difficult child become submissive, you will appreciate the spirit of being a kid with fight in them. </p><p>Submissiveness in a difficult child is so sad to see. It's demeaning. Redirect the energy as much as you can. Don't crush the spirit. </p><p>I think it is very hard for me to do and I have to be very careful.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Fran, post: 35545, member: 3"] Sue, in my humble opinion and experience, you are entitled to your opinion. You don't have to buy or participate in anything that you don't like or find offensive. I believe you have a right to dictate the rules in your home. I do believe you can not control what he does or how he looks. All you can do is voice your disapproval or disagreement, not participate by buying things you disapprove of and try to teach, redirect and reward good choices. You have no real control over anyone but yourself. If you saw difficult child become submissive, you will appreciate the spirit of being a kid with fight in them. Submissiveness in a difficult child is so sad to see. It's demeaning. Redirect the energy as much as you can. Don't crush the spirit. I think it is very hard for me to do and I have to be very careful. [/QUOTE]
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