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<blockquote data-quote="Robinboots" data-source="post: 410774" data-attributes="member: 4542"><p>So here's what went down:</p><p></p><p>He said he was going to clean out his car; next thing I saw, he left. For an hour. Came back as I was leaving to pick up easy child and stop for groceries, and I told difficult child to be here when I got back at 3:30. husband was going to be here then, and difficult child had said he was working at 5. I had a plan: to tell difficult child, with husband backing me up, that his lifestyle was not compatible with ours, that he had no respect for anyone in this family, and that he'd gone back on every agreement we had. Therefore, he had to find another place to live. By this weekend.</p><p></p><p>I expected lots of drama, cussing, etc. Maybe even violence. Who knows?</p><p></p><p>But what actually happened:</p><p></p><p>I got home, husband was a few minutes away. difficult child came out of his room and announced that he'd been "called in to work" again - happens all the time, yeah, right. I said, no, you're working at 5, Dad and I have to talk to you. And he said: Dammit, I have to go work.</p><p></p><p></p><p>I said: well, do you have my rent? Not yet. Do you have my car payment? Not yet - very belligerent.</p><p></p><p>And he said: oh, so you're kicking me out? </p><p></p><p>And I said: well, I really wouldn't call it that, but your lifestyle is not compatible with ours, you have no respect for anyone in this family, and you've gone back on every agreement we had. Therefore,you have to find another place to live. One where you set your own rules, or have no rules, or can abide by other rules.</p><p></p><p>And he said "fine". And I said: by this weekend. And he said what????????? Fine.</p><p></p><p>And he left for "work". And then husband got home.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Robinboots, post: 410774, member: 4542"] So here's what went down: He said he was going to clean out his car; next thing I saw, he left. For an hour. Came back as I was leaving to pick up easy child and stop for groceries, and I told difficult child to be here when I got back at 3:30. husband was going to be here then, and difficult child had said he was working at 5. I had a plan: to tell difficult child, with husband backing me up, that his lifestyle was not compatible with ours, that he had no respect for anyone in this family, and that he'd gone back on every agreement we had. Therefore, he had to find another place to live. By this weekend. I expected lots of drama, cussing, etc. Maybe even violence. Who knows? But what actually happened: I got home, husband was a few minutes away. difficult child came out of his room and announced that he'd been "called in to work" again - happens all the time, yeah, right. I said, no, you're working at 5, Dad and I have to talk to you. And he said: Dammit, I have to go work. I said: well, do you have my rent? Not yet. Do you have my car payment? Not yet - very belligerent. And he said: oh, so you're kicking me out? And I said: well, I really wouldn't call it that, but your lifestyle is not compatible with ours, you have no respect for anyone in this family, and you've gone back on every agreement we had. Therefore,you have to find another place to live. One where you set your own rules, or have no rules, or can abide by other rules. And he said "fine". And I said: by this weekend. And he said what????????? Fine. And he left for "work". And then husband got home. [/QUOTE]
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