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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 410805" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>Boots - </p><p> </p><p>I believe I would treat it like any other agreement - Follow up with a written letter of HERE YA GO - and in thus fashion: </p><p> </p><p>Enroll in, and attend, 15 hours of college classes; at the end of the semester you will have options such as military, EMT school, or continuing college.</p><p>Get a job.</p><p>Get your own cell phone/plan when you turn 18.</p><p>Pay us for the car and repairs; $1000 when you get your school refund, and $300 a month.</p><p>Be respectful, no violence, follow the rules, be a part of the family, curfew after work/midnight.</p><p>Pay rent, which we'll hold for you until you move out, $300 a month.</p><p></p><p>I typed up two agreements, which he signed after he turned 18, one for the car and one for rent.</p><p></p><p>He enrolled in school, got his refund, and blew it. No $1000 for us. He has been kicked out of two classes for never attending, as of two weeks ago, maybe the others by now. At the very least, he's down to 9 hours, have never seen him study or even seen his books, etc. He did make one payment for the car, out of two, and his first rent payment is two weeks overdue. No violence, but way less than respectful, staying out till all hours, overnight many nights, lying about everything, partying all the time (not here). He did get a job, two in fact, but not sure he still has one of them; and he did get his own cell. Pretty sure that his car insurance is past due, tho. And yes, we put the car in his name right off the bat so we couldn't be held responsible for anything.</p><p> </p><p> </p><p>Dear Mr. Boots: </p><p> </p><p>Per our written; attached agreement dated (insert date) there were certain non-negotiable conditions which were part of arrangement for you to continue to live in our residence. We feel that you have been given several opportunities to fulfill your portion of this agreement, and have clearly either taken advantage of our hospitality or not taken this agreement seriously. There is still the matter of the $1000.00 you owe us for the XX Vehicle and that loan is still due and payable to us. It is therefore been decided that you are to vacate the premesis (immediately, within 3 days, by XX date - you choose whatever here). This will be your final and only warning. Choosing to ignore this warning will result in your possessions being donated to an organization of our choice or simply being disposed of. Should you wish to return to these premesis you will be required to call in advance to collect your belongings and for any further visits otherwise it will be considered trespassing. </p><p> </p><p>Signed - </p><p>this xx day of 2011 </p><p> </p><p>(enclosed copy of original agreement outlining original terms not met) </p><p> </p><p>Something like that? </p><p> </p><p>I dunno -</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 410805, member: 4964"] Boots - I believe I would treat it like any other agreement - Follow up with a written letter of HERE YA GO - and in thus fashion: Enroll in, and attend, 15 hours of college classes; at the end of the semester you will have options such as military, EMT school, or continuing college. Get a job. Get your own cell phone/plan when you turn 18. Pay us for the car and repairs; $1000 when you get your school refund, and $300 a month. Be respectful, no violence, follow the rules, be a part of the family, curfew after work/midnight. Pay rent, which we'll hold for you until you move out, $300 a month. I typed up two agreements, which he signed after he turned 18, one for the car and one for rent. He enrolled in school, got his refund, and blew it. No $1000 for us. He has been kicked out of two classes for never attending, as of two weeks ago, maybe the others by now. At the very least, he's down to 9 hours, have never seen him study or even seen his books, etc. He did make one payment for the car, out of two, and his first rent payment is two weeks overdue. No violence, but way less than respectful, staying out till all hours, overnight many nights, lying about everything, partying all the time (not here). He did get a job, two in fact, but not sure he still has one of them; and he did get his own cell. Pretty sure that his car insurance is past due, tho. And yes, we put the car in his name right off the bat so we couldn't be held responsible for anything. Dear Mr. Boots: Per our written; attached agreement dated (insert date) there were certain non-negotiable conditions which were part of arrangement for you to continue to live in our residence. We feel that you have been given several opportunities to fulfill your portion of this agreement, and have clearly either taken advantage of our hospitality or not taken this agreement seriously. There is still the matter of the $1000.00 you owe us for the XX Vehicle and that loan is still due and payable to us. It is therefore been decided that you are to vacate the premesis (immediately, within 3 days, by XX date - you choose whatever here). This will be your final and only warning. Choosing to ignore this warning will result in your possessions being donated to an organization of our choice or simply being disposed of. Should you wish to return to these premesis you will be required to call in advance to collect your belongings and for any further visits otherwise it will be considered trespassing. Signed - this xx day of 2011 (enclosed copy of original agreement outlining original terms not met) Something like that? I dunno - [/QUOTE]
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