I don't have any answers - but wanted to say that I completely empathize with you on this. My 7 year old grandson is in the midst of a crisis right now and verbalizing suicidal thoughts. No beds available for a kid his age. It's a very helpless feeling ... with a huge dose of PTSD thrown in for me, remembering going through all that with his mother.
Many hugs to you - sending positive thoughts your way. I hope they can get your grandson a good evaluation and keep him, and others, safe.