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OMG, his plan is to return here...
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<blockquote data-quote="blackgnat" data-source="post: 657455" data-attributes="member: 13561"><p>There's just NO WAY he could live with me anyway, but I have made that promise to myself that even if he could, I wouldn't let him. I share an apartment with my roomie and she knows all about him-I would NEVER put her in that position where she had to deal with him on any level...</p><p></p><p>My ex texted me-he is letting Difficult Child use the VW bus to sleep in-very generously, in my opinion. He knows that at any time the apartment management might notice that someone is sleeping in it and my ex might be asked to park it elsewhere, or something. But the point is, Difficult Child can't even seem to appreciate that-the bus has already been somewhat trashed-a big hole torn out of the cushion, wet clothes, vodka spills, etc.</p><p></p><p>And now he wants to come HERE?</p><p></p><p>So hard, so hard, so hard. He seems to just be sinking lower and becoming more desperate. But as the exgfs' mother told me today, "Difficult Child told me that anything he has accomplished while sober is NOTHING compared to the way he feels when he is high". That has to be yet another mantra that I drill into my thick skull. And that's okay if that's for him (not really, but you know what I mean) but don't pull other people into your chaos, son.</p><p></p><p>Let go or be dragged, right? (That's for all of US, not for DCs!) Got to learn more how to let go. Two steps forward, one back...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="blackgnat, post: 657455, member: 13561"] There's just NO WAY he could live with me anyway, but I have made that promise to myself that even if he could, I wouldn't let him. I share an apartment with my roomie and she knows all about him-I would NEVER put her in that position where she had to deal with him on any level... My ex texted me-he is letting Difficult Child use the VW bus to sleep in-very generously, in my opinion. He knows that at any time the apartment management might notice that someone is sleeping in it and my ex might be asked to park it elsewhere, or something. But the point is, Difficult Child can't even seem to appreciate that-the bus has already been somewhat trashed-a big hole torn out of the cushion, wet clothes, vodka spills, etc. And now he wants to come HERE? So hard, so hard, so hard. He seems to just be sinking lower and becoming more desperate. But as the exgfs' mother told me today, "Difficult Child told me that anything he has accomplished while sober is NOTHING compared to the way he feels when he is high". That has to be yet another mantra that I drill into my thick skull. And that's okay if that's for him (not really, but you know what I mean) but don't pull other people into your chaos, son. Let go or be dragged, right? (That's for all of US, not for DCs!) Got to learn more how to let go. Two steps forward, one back... [/QUOTE]
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