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OMG, his plan is to return here...
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<blockquote data-quote="blackgnat" data-source="post: 657531" data-attributes="member: 13561"><p>Also, do you think that his version of "support" from me ( and how he knows he's not getting any from me)just means I'm not going to house him, feed him, give him money, take him to wherever he wants to go, pick him up from all the chaotic events he's surely going to create?</p><p></p><p>I really can't /won't duplicate the kind of support that exgf's ma has been giving him...is it a manipulative tactic for her to feel sorry for him?</p><p></p><p>Or is it some happy-clappy kind of idea-like listening to his plans and trying to establish a healthier relationship with me?</p><p></p><p>Okay, I already know the answers.</p><p></p><p>Why does it make me feel sad that he might not contact me? (but also good.God, I'm mixed up) I just want him to be safe. Like, be where you're going to be and do what you're going to do and call me once a month and say, "I'm okay, ma" and don't be drunk or high or try to drag me into your drama or live your life for you.</p><p></p><p>But he might just cut me off and I will have to accept that, too.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="blackgnat, post: 657531, member: 13561"] Also, do you think that his version of "support" from me ( and how he knows he's not getting any from me)just means I'm not going to house him, feed him, give him money, take him to wherever he wants to go, pick him up from all the chaotic events he's surely going to create? I really can't /won't duplicate the kind of support that exgf's ma has been giving him...is it a manipulative tactic for her to feel sorry for him? Or is it some happy-clappy kind of idea-like listening to his plans and trying to establish a healthier relationship with me? Okay, I already know the answers. Why does it make me feel sad that he might not contact me? (but also good.God, I'm mixed up) I just want him to be safe. Like, be where you're going to be and do what you're going to do and call me once a month and say, "I'm okay, ma" and don't be drunk or high or try to drag me into your drama or live your life for you. But he might just cut me off and I will have to accept that, too. [/QUOTE]
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