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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 657669" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Hi Again BG,</p><p></p><p>There is no wiggle room here. Convicted or not your son is a violent felon. I worked in prisons many, many years and there were usually substances involved in crimes of commitment. And many of those people received life sentences, despite being inebriated at the time of their crime.</p><p></p><p>I would be the first person to tell you that people can change. Your son does not want to.</p><p></p><p>Rather he is actively choosing to continue doing wrong, bad things. Selling food stamps is wrong. Intimidating you is wrong. Playing on your guilt and fear is wrong. Disrespecting you is wrong.</p><p></p><p>And that is just the start. You know that BG.</p><p></p><p>There are so many ways that he can stand up. He is choosing none of them.</p><p></p><p>If he wants to assume the role of a baby, as he seems to do, it has nothing in the world to do with you. Now.</p><p></p><p>That this grown man is your son changes nothing. It was this man who perpetrated a crime on you almost killing you, not your long gone baby boy.</p><p></p><p>Feelings are just that. Sometimes they are true, sometimes distorted. More often than not feelings typically confound and confuse us, having as much to do with the past, as the present or future. Feelings cannot guide us.</p><p></p><p>There is nobody here that does not know what you are going through. That is why the concern is so great. Each knows your vulnerabilities, and the perverse power of the child, now adult, in subverting our reason. </p><p></p><p>Don't let him BlackGnat. </p><p></p><p>Do it, BlackGnat. Do it for yourself. Do it.</p><p></p><p>None of this is your fault. None of it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 657669, member: 18958"] Hi Again BG, There is no wiggle room here. Convicted or not your son is a violent felon. I worked in prisons many, many years and there were usually substances involved in crimes of commitment. And many of those people received life sentences, despite being inebriated at the time of their crime. I would be the first person to tell you that people can change. Your son does not want to. Rather he is actively choosing to continue doing wrong, bad things. Selling food stamps is wrong. Intimidating you is wrong. Playing on your guilt and fear is wrong. Disrespecting you is wrong. And that is just the start. You know that BG. There are so many ways that he can stand up. He is choosing none of them. If he wants to assume the role of a baby, as he seems to do, it has nothing in the world to do with you. Now. That this grown man is your son changes nothing. It was this man who perpetrated a crime on you almost killing you, not your long gone baby boy. Feelings are just that. Sometimes they are true, sometimes distorted. More often than not feelings typically confound and confuse us, having as much to do with the past, as the present or future. Feelings cannot guide us. There is nobody here that does not know what you are going through. That is why the concern is so great. Each knows your vulnerabilities, and the perverse power of the child, now adult, in subverting our reason. Don't let him BlackGnat. Do it, BlackGnat. Do it for yourself. Do it. None of this is your fault. None of it. [/QUOTE]
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