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<blockquote data-quote="Albatross" data-source="post: 657729" data-attributes="member: 17720"><p>Such excellent posts and advice here, and I wanted to tell Cedar once again how much I admire her strength of spirit and generous heart. Cedar, I have never seen your story laid out all in one spot before. You have been through so very much, and your response to it all has been to become MORE loving, rather than shutting people out. I think that really is quite extraordinary and wonderful.</p><p></p><p>But of more immediate importance is adding my plea to Blackgnat regarding safety. Blackgnat, we are all involved in give-and-take with our DCs. We give more than we know we should, then we have to try to establish new boundaries or reclaim old ones.</p><p></p><p>I don't think that is anything like your situation, Blackgnat. I think any give on your part might be a huge mistake, maybe even an irrevocable mistake. Please, please make sure you are absolutely insulated and protected from your son. I agree with the others who suggest no contact, and I think it is an excellent time for a relocation for many reasons. Go start that new life you've been dreaming of.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Albatross, post: 657729, member: 17720"] Such excellent posts and advice here, and I wanted to tell Cedar once again how much I admire her strength of spirit and generous heart. Cedar, I have never seen your story laid out all in one spot before. You have been through so very much, and your response to it all has been to become MORE loving, rather than shutting people out. I think that really is quite extraordinary and wonderful. But of more immediate importance is adding my plea to Blackgnat regarding safety. Blackgnat, we are all involved in give-and-take with our DCs. We give more than we know we should, then we have to try to establish new boundaries or reclaim old ones. I don't think that is anything like your situation, Blackgnat. I think any give on your part might be a huge mistake, maybe even an irrevocable mistake. Please, please make sure you are absolutely insulated and protected from your son. I agree with the others who suggest no contact, and I think it is an excellent time for a relocation for many reasons. Go start that new life you've been dreaming of. [/QUOTE]
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