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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 235953" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslategray">Marg, with all due respect, you are wrong about this. Not ALL men will have sex with their willing wife/girlfriend. Just because it's there, doesn't mean they will take advantage of it. Not ALL men are walking around thinking of sex every 9.6 seconds as statistics say. Clearly, kjs' wife has deeper issues than impotence. Yes, your comments about what may contribute to a man's impotence are correct, but based on what has been posted by kjs in the past, I would venture to guess that this is not her H's problem (impotence). In his case it really does sound like it's a combination of abuse, self loathing (very typical in porn addicts), lack of intimacy, control (over her), and many other things. In regards to the control thing - he feels that she has all the control, being the breadwinner and the caretaker, and this may be his only way of having control over her. Also, since he likely has a very low opinion of himself and has trouble coping with that, this is one way in which he can make himself feel better. Unfortunately, it creates a vicious cycle of self loathing...make himself feel better, then feel badly because he's feeling guilty...and it goes on.</span></span></span></p><p></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslategray">It really really annoys me that people have this idea that men are somehow walking around at all times thinking about sex, where to get it, how to get it and when. I can tell you, it is not that simple. Even if kjs met her H at the door in a sexy outfit, a house free of kids, candles everywhere, and a bevy of sex toys - chances are he wouldn't be ready to jump in the sack. He's got issues that prevent him from being intimate with his wife - that much is crystal clear. This is not about sex.</span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #2f4f4f">KJs, I will not post on this thread at all anymore - obviously it's too sensitive for me. However, please post and let us know how you're doing. I think we're all worried about you. Hugs, sweetie. Take care of yourself.</span></span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 235953, member: 2211"] [FONT=Century Gothic][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslategray]Marg, with all due respect, you are wrong about this. Not ALL men will have sex with their willing wife/girlfriend. Just because it's there, doesn't mean they will take advantage of it. Not ALL men are walking around thinking of sex every 9.6 seconds as statistics say. Clearly, kjs' wife has deeper issues than impotence. Yes, your comments about what may contribute to a man's impotence are correct, but based on what has been posted by kjs in the past, I would venture to guess that this is not her H's problem (impotence). In his case it really does sound like it's a combination of abuse, self loathing (very typical in porn addicts), lack of intimacy, control (over her), and many other things. In regards to the control thing - he feels that she has all the control, being the breadwinner and the caretaker, and this may be his only way of having control over her. Also, since he likely has a very low opinion of himself and has trouble coping with that, this is one way in which he can make himself feel better. Unfortunately, it creates a vicious cycle of self loathing...make himself feel better, then feel badly because he's feeling guilty...and it goes on.[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Century Gothic][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslategray]It really really annoys me that people have this idea that men are somehow walking around at all times thinking about sex, where to get it, how to get it and when. I can tell you, it is not that simple. Even if kjs met her H at the door in a sexy outfit, a house free of kids, candles everywhere, and a bevy of sex toys - chances are he wouldn't be ready to jump in the sack. He's got issues that prevent him from being intimate with his wife - that much is crystal clear. This is not about sex.[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Century Gothic][SIZE=3][COLOR=#2f4f4f][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Century Gothic][SIZE=3][COLOR=#2f4f4f]KJs, I will not post on this thread at all anymore - obviously it's too sensitive for me. However, please post and let us know how you're doing. I think we're all worried about you. Hugs, sweetie. Take care of yourself.[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [/QUOTE]
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