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OMG - things are bad - and apparently I am the one to blame
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 321056" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Steely,</p><p></p><p>I have no clue what the program is thinking, or what is going on with Matt. I do know that beating yourself up over any of this will simply confuse things and be really cruel to YOU. You don't deserve cruel. If the new job has you exhausted you may be too tired to really see what is going on. Almost everything looks better after a decent night's sleep. (My Dad has always told my mom, my aunts, and I this when we exhaust ourselves and get caught in a loop like the one you are in. Makes me madder than snot that he is right. every. single. blinkin'. time. Idiot men aren't supposed to be right every time like that. Or at least that is what I think every time. )</p><p></p><p>You NEED to do whatever it takes to get a few decent nights' sleep and recharge. NOTHING can be helped until then, not really.</p><p></p><p>My thinking is more along the lines of Witz. It will anger you. I am sorry. It is said with love and with the understanding that you will probably choose to do otherwise and that is OK. It really is. I totally understand that you probably NEED to do otherwise. We are still here for you and we still love you. We will still love you after you tell us all to go slurp an egg. </p><p></p><p>Right now you are in an emotional airplane. It is on a pretty scary course and the oxygen masks have come down. Will you keep trying to put Matt's on while he fights you to the point you collapse and cannot do anything at all because you are unconscious and dying from lack of oxygen? Or will you put your mask on and THEN fight Matt to put his on?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 321056, member: 1233"] Steely, I have no clue what the program is thinking, or what is going on with Matt. I do know that beating yourself up over any of this will simply confuse things and be really cruel to YOU. You don't deserve cruel. If the new job has you exhausted you may be too tired to really see what is going on. Almost everything looks better after a decent night's sleep. (My Dad has always told my mom, my aunts, and I this when we exhaust ourselves and get caught in a loop like the one you are in. Makes me madder than snot that he is right. every. single. blinkin'. time. Idiot men aren't supposed to be right every time like that. Or at least that is what I think every time. ) You NEED to do whatever it takes to get a few decent nights' sleep and recharge. NOTHING can be helped until then, not really. My thinking is more along the lines of Witz. It will anger you. I am sorry. It is said with love and with the understanding that you will probably choose to do otherwise and that is OK. It really is. I totally understand that you probably NEED to do otherwise. We are still here for you and we still love you. We will still love you after you tell us all to go slurp an egg. Right now you are in an emotional airplane. It is on a pretty scary course and the oxygen masks have come down. Will you keep trying to put Matt's on while he fights you to the point you collapse and cannot do anything at all because you are unconscious and dying from lack of oxygen? Or will you put your mask on and THEN fight Matt to put his on? [/QUOTE]
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