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OMG - things are bad - and apparently I am the one to blame
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<blockquote data-quote="Steely" data-source="post: 321107" data-attributes="member: 3301"><p>Umm wait a minute. I am super confused. What is it, Witz and Susie, that you are suggesting that I do? </p><p>Are you suggesting that I am doing the wrong thing by keeping him in the program? </p><p>Are you suggesting that by getting him help I am controlling him and destroying our lives?</p><p>Can you please clarify?</p><p>What is it that you guys are suggesting?</p><p>I am not angry, just baffled by the kind of out of the left field comments.</p><p><em>"start working personally on the issue of why you have such a strong need to fix Matt."</em></p><p><em></em>Um - I didn't know putting Matt in a program was a need for me to fix Matt. </p><p>Do you remember that he clocked me a year ago? <em>That</em> is why he is in the program. Not because I need a perfect kid, or want to remain enmeshed in his life. He is a safety hazard both to himself and others. He is still being violent.</p><p><em>"two people who are so interested in what the other is doing wrong that they are destroying their own lives." </em></p><p>Um, again, how is Matt in anyway trying to figure out what I am doing wrong? He never complains to me about me! He really couldn't care less about me. </p><p>I want all feedback and input, because I want to be an evolved person. One who can look at life and not have Matt hate me for life. So I want all of your input. But lets make sure it has credence before throwing it out there. Lets sure it makes sense.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Steely, post: 321107, member: 3301"] Umm wait a minute. I am super confused. What is it, Witz and Susie, that you are suggesting that I do? Are you suggesting that I am doing the wrong thing by keeping him in the program? Are you suggesting that by getting him help I am controlling him and destroying our lives? Can you please clarify? What is it that you guys are suggesting? I am not angry, just baffled by the kind of out of the left field comments. [I]"start working personally on the issue of why you have such a strong need to fix Matt." [/I]Um - I didn't know putting Matt in a program was a need for me to fix Matt. Do you remember that he clocked me a year ago? [I]That[/I] is why he is in the program. Not because I need a perfect kid, or want to remain enmeshed in his life. He is a safety hazard both to himself and others. He is still being violent. [I]"two people who are so interested in what the other is doing wrong that they are destroying their own lives." [/I] Um, again, how is Matt in anyway trying to figure out what I am doing wrong? He never complains to me about me! He really couldn't care less about me. I want all feedback and input, because I want to be an evolved person. One who can look at life and not have Matt hate me for life. So I want all of your input. But lets make sure it has credence before throwing it out there. Lets sure it makes sense. [/QUOTE]
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