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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 254037" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>Thanks, Ladies! As everyone knows, I've spent a great deal of time trying to find another way to get to the county team besides going thru the PO since the PO has always refused to do it and refer Residential Treatment Center (RTC). I heard back from the detention/mental health cm this morning that she had spoken with someone from the county team and they said it had to be the PO. </p><p></p><p>I'm thinking now this might be the best message to send out there for court, and I've already called and left this message to GAL: "There is no one allowing me to get to the county team and they are all telling me it has to be the PO. This is what I was being told before difficult child committed his last illegal act, which is why that letter to the judge is in his file asking for release from probation (written in Jan), this is what I was told the day of the last court, and this is what I'm still being told. The PO's position through all of this has been that she will not refer it so unless someone can change the PO's mind or difficult child is released from probation so that I can use my parental rights to access the county teaam thru other agencies, I know of no way to get it. This is exactly the same as the situation months ago, which is why I tried to get something done about it before difficult child committed his last offense."</p><p></p><p>What mother would take parental decisions from someone who refuses to discuss what is in the best interest of a child and follow experts' recommendations and refuse to do something that has been determined to lead to the best chance for the child having effective treatment and being rehabilitated? To me, it just looks like this PO is more interested in proving a point about power than anything and that is not someone I'm going to take orders from regarding my son. I know they are there to make sure the kid and family do what they are supposed to, but they are also there to get neccessary programs in place when determined to be important for keeping the kid out of corrections facilities. This is documented all thru our local and state laws, policies, etc. </p><p></p><p>It is beyond me why no one is talking to this PO about why she is the ONLY person who is against this. How could I ever view her as someone I should be listening to about parenting?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 254037, member: 3699"] Thanks, Ladies! As everyone knows, I've spent a great deal of time trying to find another way to get to the county team besides going thru the PO since the PO has always refused to do it and refer Residential Treatment Center (RTC). I heard back from the detention/mental health cm this morning that she had spoken with someone from the county team and they said it had to be the PO. I'm thinking now this might be the best message to send out there for court, and I've already called and left this message to GAL: "There is no one allowing me to get to the county team and they are all telling me it has to be the PO. This is what I was being told before difficult child committed his last illegal act, which is why that letter to the judge is in his file asking for release from probation (written in Jan), this is what I was told the day of the last court, and this is what I'm still being told. The PO's position through all of this has been that she will not refer it so unless someone can change the PO's mind or difficult child is released from probation so that I can use my parental rights to access the county teaam thru other agencies, I know of no way to get it. This is exactly the same as the situation months ago, which is why I tried to get something done about it before difficult child committed his last offense." What mother would take parental decisions from someone who refuses to discuss what is in the best interest of a child and follow experts' recommendations and refuse to do something that has been determined to lead to the best chance for the child having effective treatment and being rehabilitated? To me, it just looks like this PO is more interested in proving a point about power than anything and that is not someone I'm going to take orders from regarding my son. I know they are there to make sure the kid and family do what they are supposed to, but they are also there to get neccessary programs in place when determined to be important for keeping the kid out of corrections facilities. This is documented all thru our local and state laws, policies, etc. It is beyond me why no one is talking to this PO about why she is the ONLY person who is against this. How could I ever view her as someone I should be listening to about parenting? [/QUOTE]
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