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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 254043" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>Yeah- I doubt it will happen just because it would shake the pretty picture of how well the system works, but really, what do you expect from someone who told me that I was wasting my time to get difficult child a MDE from the state experts after his psychiatrist said he thought he was probably bipolar- the PO told me I shouldn't take difficult child, it wasn't court ordered and I was wasting my time. I should only concentrate on doing what the mst guy said. Funny- the judge seemed to be quite interested in the MDE report and recommendations after I had them in hand.</p><p></p><p>I know the judge wants to be able to monitor compliance but she never looks at anything unless/until difficult child ends up in court again anyway. I don't see why there can't be another way besides probation to meet everyone's objective. Why can't he be released from probation and have Residential Treatment Center (RTC) submit a copy of the monthly review to the court? It would verify compliance, family therapy, progress, etc. I just can't see what purpose probation was serving in this situation. She was never focused on doing anything to prevent difficult child going into dept of corrections. Obviously, we both have deteriorated individually and in our relationship (difficult child and I) and I know her undermining my authority and not having any goals in place for difficult child to be released from probation had a LOT to do with it. I just don't see how I can prove that in court- especially when they are all just pointing the finger at me as being the ccommon denominator.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 254043, member: 3699"] Yeah- I doubt it will happen just because it would shake the pretty picture of how well the system works, but really, what do you expect from someone who told me that I was wasting my time to get difficult child a MDE from the state experts after his psychiatrist said he thought he was probably bipolar- the PO told me I shouldn't take difficult child, it wasn't court ordered and I was wasting my time. I should only concentrate on doing what the mst guy said. Funny- the judge seemed to be quite interested in the MDE report and recommendations after I had them in hand. I know the judge wants to be able to monitor compliance but she never looks at anything unless/until difficult child ends up in court again anyway. I don't see why there can't be another way besides probation to meet everyone's objective. Why can't he be released from probation and have Residential Treatment Center (RTC) submit a copy of the monthly review to the court? It would verify compliance, family therapy, progress, etc. I just can't see what purpose probation was serving in this situation. She was never focused on doing anything to prevent difficult child going into dept of corrections. Obviously, we both have deteriorated individually and in our relationship (difficult child and I) and I know her undermining my authority and not having any goals in place for difficult child to be released from probation had a LOT to do with it. I just don't see how I can prove that in court- especially when they are all just pointing the finger at me as being the ccommon denominator. [/QUOTE]
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