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One last post and I will leave you alone ;)
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<blockquote data-quote="ksm" data-source="post: 748080" data-attributes="member: 12511"><p>You need to respond in such a way that you repeat what she said, so that she knows you heard her. There is a fine line to do it in such a way that does not discredit what she said, but on the other hand doesn't explicitly say you agree. There is a term for this...but my mind is blank.</p><p></p><p></p><p>She says something extreme about vaccinations, you respond, you read that xyz can cause abc? You must find that scary. Or, she says.. Xyz can help abc if you do this/that etc. you can say, you are really studying this info. I can tell you want to do what you think is best for my grandson.</p><p></p><p>See, it's dancing around the subject, letting her know you heard her, and that these ideas come from a place of concern for her son. I've been to a lot of dances... You don't have to agree with her...but she needs to know you heard her. And you do that by mirroring what she said.</p><p></p><p>Ksm</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ksm, post: 748080, member: 12511"] You need to respond in such a way that you repeat what she said, so that she knows you heard her. There is a fine line to do it in such a way that does not discredit what she said, but on the other hand doesn't explicitly say you agree. There is a term for this...but my mind is blank. She says something extreme about vaccinations, you respond, you read that xyz can cause abc? You must find that scary. Or, she says.. Xyz can help abc if you do this/that etc. you can say, you are really studying this info. I can tell you want to do what you think is best for my grandson. See, it's dancing around the subject, letting her know you heard her, and that these ideas come from a place of concern for her son. I've been to a lot of dances... You don't have to agree with her...but she needs to know you heard her. And you do that by mirroring what she said. Ksm [/QUOTE]
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