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One of us is nuts, is it him or me (or both).
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<blockquote data-quote="hearthope" data-source="post: 13021" data-attributes="member: 2389"><p>Reading your post brought back memories of last yr when my difficult child was in the grouphome.</p><p>I realize now that my difficult child was maniplating me!</p><p>I got the same phone calls. Alot of them in regards to his friends not writing him like "he" thought they should. I was also asked to contact his friends which I never did.</p><p>My difficult child just set in stone his need to be the center of the universe. Regardless of what hardships we faced with making it to visit or how we drug easy child around with us, we "owed" him.</p><p>He needed sweats, then he needed shorts, then he needed shoes, etc. My stopping point to his request for different clothing came when we went to visit and arrived early. Usually the rest of the boys were up in another part of the house and we didn't see them, on this day we got to see all of them. I saw that at least 5 of them had on the clothes that my difficult child had to have. When I questioned him about it, he very sternly told me not to worry about what he did with "his" clothes.</p><p></p><p>He was put on seraquil, after he came home he let me know that he didn't take his medications.</p><p></p><p>He also pushed all the limits that he could, complained about the staff, called me each night to either tell me horror stories of fights or bragging that he was the only one on level so and so and that he ran the place.</p><p></p><p>I wish I could offer advice, my difficult child ran away from the grouphome and has continued to get himself deeper and deeper in trouble with the law.</p><p>I can only wish you peace and let you know that you are not alone, I do know how hard it is.</p><p>Like Barbara has told me~ keep posting about it. It helps to heal your soul</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearthope, post: 13021, member: 2389"] Reading your post brought back memories of last yr when my difficult child was in the grouphome. I realize now that my difficult child was maniplating me! I got the same phone calls. Alot of them in regards to his friends not writing him like "he" thought they should. I was also asked to contact his friends which I never did. My difficult child just set in stone his need to be the center of the universe. Regardless of what hardships we faced with making it to visit or how we drug easy child around with us, we "owed" him. He needed sweats, then he needed shorts, then he needed shoes, etc. My stopping point to his request for different clothing came when we went to visit and arrived early. Usually the rest of the boys were up in another part of the house and we didn't see them, on this day we got to see all of them. I saw that at least 5 of them had on the clothes that my difficult child had to have. When I questioned him about it, he very sternly told me not to worry about what he did with "his" clothes. He was put on seraquil, after he came home he let me know that he didn't take his medications. He also pushed all the limits that he could, complained about the staff, called me each night to either tell me horror stories of fights or bragging that he was the only one on level so and so and that he ran the place. I wish I could offer advice, my difficult child ran away from the grouphome and has continued to get himself deeper and deeper in trouble with the law. I can only wish you peace and let you know that you are not alone, I do know how hard it is. Like Barbara has told me~ keep posting about it. It helps to heal your soul [/QUOTE]
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