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<blockquote data-quote="mstang67chic" data-source="post: 112243" data-attributes="member: 2459"><p>I think it's fine also. Especially when there are kids involved but even without, I don't see a problem. You met these people because of a marriage but you became friends on your own. </p><p></p><p>My husband's brother D and his previous wife M divorced a few years ago. D (immediately) remarried to J but I still see M as much as possible. I get along fine with D's current wife J but I also still consider M to be my sister-in-law.</p><p></p><p>For me, if you marry into my family and divorce out, my desire for continued contact (or not) simply depends on whether or not I liked you to begin with. Obviously, if there are kids involved, I will be civil and polite but if I didn't like you at the start, I feel no obligation to seek out your company. And of course, there are the times where I would much rather see the ex than my actual family member. (But that's a whole different post! :rofl:</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="mstang67chic, post: 112243, member: 2459"] I think it's fine also. Especially when there are kids involved but even without, I don't see a problem. You met these people because of a marriage but you became friends on your own. My husband's brother D and his previous wife M divorced a few years ago. D (immediately) remarried to J but I still see M as much as possible. I get along fine with D's current wife J but I also still consider M to be my sister-in-law. For me, if you marry into my family and divorce out, my desire for continued contact (or not) simply depends on whether or not I liked you to begin with. Obviously, if there are kids involved, I will be civil and polite but if I didn't like you at the start, I feel no obligation to seek out your company. And of course, there are the times where I would much rather see the ex than my actual family member. (But that's a whole different post! [img]:rofl:[/img] [/QUOTE]
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