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<blockquote data-quote="Hanging-On" data-source="post: 92862" data-attributes="member: 2325"><p>Suzie,</p><p></p><p>Thank you, and (for me) you don't need to appologize. YOU stated what struck me wrong about my conversation with the psychiatric. Up to that point, it was about easy child. But then when I said no to the Strattera AND that I was thinking of not using any medications on easy child (because if it's just stopping him from bouncing off the walls but he's not raging, but he still does tantrums (active pouting, and sit-in's) then I didn't see the point) that's when all this other stuff came out. In my gut, it just sits really wrong.</p><p></p><p>I mean think about it. Most of us, if not all, have had to sacrifice so much about EVERYTHING for our difficult child's. AND we all know that our easy child's and other family members are being effected in a huge unfair way. easy child's receive less attention, they receive more abuse due to difficult child, there's less money to spend on the family let alone a easy child, activities are altered or completely omitted due to difficult child, the stress level in the house and in daily life is greater then in a normal house so easy child has to live with that, there's therapy stuff that comes to the house that normally wouldn't, and EVERY goal and EVERY therapy is presented as a "family" strengthening event not just something for difficult child, and easy child's HAVE to learn to deal with difficult child or they wont make it. It's not fair, and then to give as another excuse to medicate a easy child because it will not only calm him down but it will lessen triggers for difficult child......<img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/2012/censored2.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":censored2:" title="censored2 :censored2:" data-shortname=":censored2:" /> Man!!!! This is just too surreal, because now I'm they're blurring the border of what is best for easy child, and what we have to DO TO easy child to better difficult child. G-D almighty no wonder I'm confused over this stuff with easy child and I'm resistant. </p><p></p><p>Thanks for listening to my vent.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hanging-On, post: 92862, member: 2325"] Suzie, Thank you, and (for me) you don't need to appologize. YOU stated what struck me wrong about my conversation with the psychiatric. Up to that point, it was about easy child. But then when I said no to the Strattera AND that I was thinking of not using any medications on easy child (because if it's just stopping him from bouncing off the walls but he's not raging, but he still does tantrums (active pouting, and sit-in's) then I didn't see the point) that's when all this other stuff came out. In my gut, it just sits really wrong. I mean think about it. Most of us, if not all, have had to sacrifice so much about EVERYTHING for our difficult child's. AND we all know that our easy child's and other family members are being effected in a huge unfair way. easy child's receive less attention, they receive more abuse due to difficult child, there's less money to spend on the family let alone a easy child, activities are altered or completely omitted due to difficult child, the stress level in the house and in daily life is greater then in a normal house so easy child has to live with that, there's therapy stuff that comes to the house that normally wouldn't, and EVERY goal and EVERY therapy is presented as a "family" strengthening event not just something for difficult child, and easy child's HAVE to learn to deal with difficult child or they wont make it. It's not fair, and then to give as another excuse to medicate a easy child because it will not only calm him down but it will lessen triggers for difficult child......:censored: Man!!!! This is just too surreal, because now I'm they're blurring the border of what is best for easy child, and what we have to DO TO easy child to better difficult child. G-D almighty no wonder I'm confused over this stuff with easy child and I'm resistant. Thanks for listening to my vent. [/QUOTE]
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