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<blockquote data-quote="busywend" data-source="post: 105828" data-attributes="member: 391"><p>She is 20</p><p>Sleeping in too late</p><p>Not paying rent</p><p>Working only on weekends</p><p>Arguing about doing chores</p><p>Not respecting your wishes about picking up after herself</p><p></p><p>Why would she change a thing? </p><p></p><p>I believe you would enjoy your difficult child much more if she lived elsewhere. Problem is how can she afford to move out? She really needs to get a full time job and figure out how to live on her own. I do not think this living arrangement fits into your retirement plan. And I think you have a right to say so. </p><p></p><p>You need a plan. </p><p>She needs time lines. She has to get a full time job by Jan 15th. Then she can stay until Mar 1st so she can save a few paychecks. If no job on Jan 15th she should have to leave, but where will she go? I know it is not your problem, but will you be able to follow through if she is to be on the street? I don't think so. Not unless she really pushes you over the edge between now and then.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="busywend, post: 105828, member: 391"] She is 20 Sleeping in too late Not paying rent Working only on weekends Arguing about doing chores Not respecting your wishes about picking up after herself Why would she change a thing? I believe you would enjoy your difficult child much more if she lived elsewhere. Problem is how can she afford to move out? She really needs to get a full time job and figure out how to live on her own. I do not think this living arrangement fits into your retirement plan. And I think you have a right to say so. You need a plan. She needs time lines. She has to get a full time job by Jan 15th. Then she can stay until Mar 1st so she can save a few paychecks. If no job on Jan 15th she should have to leave, but where will she go? I know it is not your problem, but will you be able to follow through if she is to be on the street? I don't think so. Not unless she really pushes you over the edge between now and then. [/QUOTE]
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