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<blockquote data-quote="firstangel" data-source="post: 333603" data-attributes="member: 8753"><p>"The explosive child" (the book I mean) has just arrived and I'm like completely absorbed by it. It also looks like its presence in the house works magics as D let me read it and played quitely with his toy cars next to me <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> </p><p>And not a tantrum today, a lot of "Yes mummy" and "Ok mummy" and "Am I good today mummy?", so sweet.. We celebrated this blessed day with cuddles, story readings, thanksgivings (we usually have our personal thnksgiving before going to bed) and singing songs.. It was just like every night, but different, at least for me; I feel positive and hopeful and have found the strength to fight for my child's wellbeing again..</p><p>The day before yesterday D called me saying that he wanted to come home (he was staying at his dad's, he usually spends there one or two nights every week) and for the last couple of days he's been stating that he won't go to his dad's EVER . I'm trying to understand what happened, but (obviously) he won't really answer. He says that he missed me too much and that when he's at his dad he has headaches and so they fight. I tried to explain that he will miss his dad terribly if he never sees him again, but I don't want to force him, because he gets very agitated when I bring out the subject. We'll see how this evolves.</p><p>Being in this forum has brought back so many memories about D's behaviours and of my own childhood as well, I feel the urge of writing everything down not to let details get lost again.</p><p>I feel good, I feel better and I'll keep you posted.</p><p>Goodnight dear strong wonderful mums!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="firstangel, post: 333603, member: 8753"] "The explosive child" (the book I mean) has just arrived and I'm like completely absorbed by it. It also looks like its presence in the house works magics as D let me read it and played quitely with his toy cars next to me :-) And not a tantrum today, a lot of "Yes mummy" and "Ok mummy" and "Am I good today mummy?", so sweet.. We celebrated this blessed day with cuddles, story readings, thanksgivings (we usually have our personal thnksgiving before going to bed) and singing songs.. It was just like every night, but different, at least for me; I feel positive and hopeful and have found the strength to fight for my child's wellbeing again.. The day before yesterday D called me saying that he wanted to come home (he was staying at his dad's, he usually spends there one or two nights every week) and for the last couple of days he's been stating that he won't go to his dad's EVER . I'm trying to understand what happened, but (obviously) he won't really answer. He says that he missed me too much and that when he's at his dad he has headaches and so they fight. I tried to explain that he will miss his dad terribly if he never sees him again, but I don't want to force him, because he gets very agitated when I bring out the subject. We'll see how this evolves. Being in this forum has brought back so many memories about D's behaviours and of my own childhood as well, I feel the urge of writing everything down not to let details get lost again. I feel good, I feel better and I'll keep you posted. Goodnight dear strong wonderful mums! [/QUOTE]
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