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<blockquote data-quote="Heather52" data-source="post: 686975" data-attributes="member: 20312"><p>Every day is different. There are times I just cryother days I'm angry, I panic when I think this situation will never get fixed, disbelief . There are days when I live almost normal but my thoughts are never far from my daughter. A daughter who betrayed me, our family and most of all her father. Since the day she made it clear no relationship with her father, a relationship with me only is the day our family as we knew it changed. I constantly look for advice, something to validate that it's not me, it's not her father it's about her. Unless you are in it, nobody can truly understand the profound pain you feel. Sadly I've read so many cases that echo mine. When is it OK for our children to sentence their parents of this unspeakable situation that they had placed on us? How dare they. In our situation Tolerance, Respect and Patience for a three hour visit monthly, if these three were exercised , I wouldn't be ranting right now. How is it they think that their children won't treat them the same way? This is what they are inadvertently teaching their own children. Surely God , how can your own child inflict so much pain and get away with it. I read , parents should be the hero , turn the other way, beg for forgiveness, do anything to fix this epidemic . In my case I know that this will only empower them, and feed their need to control. To be right, but unhappy , or to be wrong but be happy. If that's the case , I accept total responsibility , my dignity, self respect would be destroyed . How happy really would we really be at the end of the day. That's my rant. Sorry</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Heather52, post: 686975, member: 20312"] Every day is different. There are times I just cryother days I'm angry, I panic when I think this situation will never get fixed, disbelief . There are days when I live almost normal but my thoughts are never far from my daughter. A daughter who betrayed me, our family and most of all her father. Since the day she made it clear no relationship with her father, a relationship with me only is the day our family as we knew it changed. I constantly look for advice, something to validate that it's not me, it's not her father it's about her. Unless you are in it, nobody can truly understand the profound pain you feel. Sadly I've read so many cases that echo mine. When is it OK for our children to sentence their parents of this unspeakable situation that they had placed on us? How dare they. In our situation Tolerance, Respect and Patience for a three hour visit monthly, if these three were exercised , I wouldn't be ranting right now. How is it they think that their children won't treat them the same way? This is what they are inadvertently teaching their own children. Surely God , how can your own child inflict so much pain and get away with it. I read , parents should be the hero , turn the other way, beg for forgiveness, do anything to fix this epidemic . In my case I know that this will only empower them, and feed their need to control. To be right, but unhappy , or to be wrong but be happy. If that's the case , I accept total responsibility , my dignity, self respect would be destroyed . How happy really would we really be at the end of the day. That's my rant. Sorry [/QUOTE]
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