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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 687034" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>PonyGirl, you took the words right out of my mouth!!</p><p></p><p>While my husband is not a member on this site but I do share with him some of the posts. It has helped to open his eyes, to know that we are not alone in this. It might be helpful for you to share with your husband. No need for him to quietly suffer.</p><p> </p><p></p><p>The thing about forgiveness is that it's for the person who forgives. My bio father sexually abused me. I had every right to hate him but that hate can live inside a person like a cancer and it will eat away at you. I forgave my bio father for me, not him.</p><p>There is a saying "Holding onto anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die"</p><p>Yes, those who feel they are entitled probably do not understand the concept of forgiveness. I think many of them prefer to remain a victim. When you remain a victim you are not accountable for anything, as it's always someone else's fault.</p><p></p><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/staystrong.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":staystrong:" title="staystrong :staystrong:" data-shortname=":staystrong:" /><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/notalone.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":notalone:" title="notalone :notalone:" data-shortname=":notalone:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 687034, member: 18516"] PonyGirl, you took the words right out of my mouth!! While my husband is not a member on this site but I do share with him some of the posts. It has helped to open his eyes, to know that we are not alone in this. It might be helpful for you to share with your husband. No need for him to quietly suffer. The thing about forgiveness is that it's for the person who forgives. My bio father sexually abused me. I had every right to hate him but that hate can live inside a person like a cancer and it will eat away at you. I forgave my bio father for me, not him. There is a saying "Holding onto anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die" Yes, those who feel they are entitled probably do not understand the concept of forgiveness. I think many of them prefer to remain a victim. When you remain a victim you are not accountable for anything, as it's always someone else's fault. :staystrong::notalone: [/QUOTE]
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