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Our difficult child has a baby!
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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 586182" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>Congratulations on being a grandmother! I can understand your mixed feelings for sure. I would not pay for school or have them live with me, just my opinion. His Mom shouldn't be negotiating his choices now, he's a man and a Dad and now it's up to him. If he needs help with anything, he should come to you, present his case, make pay back arrangements for a school loan, etc. Otherwise, you would be enabling him. If he has had an epiphany then that will carry him through doing all the 'hard stuff'' in order to wake up and do the right thing. This is his opportunity to grow up, do not get in his way by enabling him, allow him to man up on his own. Hugs to you grandma!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 586182, member: 13542"] Congratulations on being a grandmother! I can understand your mixed feelings for sure. I would not pay for school or have them live with me, just my opinion. His Mom shouldn't be negotiating his choices now, he's a man and a Dad and now it's up to him. If he needs help with anything, he should come to you, present his case, make pay back arrangements for a school loan, etc. Otherwise, you would be enabling him. If he has had an epiphany then that will carry him through doing all the 'hard stuff'' in order to wake up and do the right thing. This is his opportunity to grow up, do not get in his way by enabling him, allow him to man up on his own. Hugs to you grandma! [/QUOTE]
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