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<blockquote data-quote="OverwhelmedMa" data-source="post: 392347"><p><span style="color: #333333"><span style="font-family: 'Tahoma'">To start with, what were some of the characteristics of her bio-mom? </span></span></p><p><span style="color: #333333"><span style="font-family: 'Tahoma'">She was a drug addict and used meth. My husband said she did not use during pregnancy but started back up after birth. Bio-mom has approx 7 kids. None are in her custody and she has lost all rights. My husband also had a drug problem. When difficult child was around a year and a half, he came home to her burned on her neck. The bio-mom refused to take her to the hospital and claimed it was a burn from the wall heater. The burn was not consistent with heater and looked like a deliberate curling iron burn. My husband took difficult child to hospital and was truthful with hospital regarding his and her drug use. The children were removed and my husband went to rehab. The children were put into foster care and once he completed rehab, counseling, ect the children were returned to him. Bio-moms rights were terminated. She did not attend rehab nor seek psychiatric help like CPS required. difficult childs current therapist actually was involved in the CPS case. He told me some of the past psychiatric issues bio-mom had.</span></span></p><p><span style="color: #333333"><span style="font-family: 'Tahoma'">husband has some depression. He has been sober for almost seven years. His sister has bipolar and is an addict. His mother has anxiety issues but she is not treated. We do not have bio-moms history.</span></span></p><p><span style="color: #333333"><span style="font-family: 'Tahoma'"></span></span></p><p><span style="color: #333333"><span style="font-family: 'Tahoma'">She is in good health. Never complains of any stomachaches or headaches unless she is in a fit of rage. She is RARELY sick. Those </span></span></p><p><span style="color: #333333"><span style="font-family: 'Tahoma'">Appetite depends on mood. She is the typical child when it comes to eating veggies but other than that she eats everything. She does play games with food and will not like something when she feels the need to control. </span></span></p><p><span style="color: #333333"><span style="font-family: 'Tahoma'"></span></span></p><p><span style="color: #333333"><span style="font-family: 'Tahoma'">She and our son both know bio-mom is out of the picture because of her drug use. She takes out almost ALL her rage on me. It peaks when my husband is at work. Recently, she went to school telling the teacher I was going to die any day. She also said they had to cut off a chunk of my stomach and a finger. Since she has never had issues at school, the teacher believed her. She continued coming to school for about a week and a half stating, Any day she is going to die. It then abruptly stopped. Dont get me wrong, I am not the only person she targets. My husband and her g-ma gets her rages too. I am just the typical target.</span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="OverwhelmedMa, post: 392347"] [COLOR=#333333][FONT=Tahoma]To start with, what were some of the characteristics of her bio-mom? [/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=#333333][FONT=Tahoma]She was a drug addict and used meth. My husband said she did not use during pregnancy but started back up after birth. Bio-mom has approx 7 kids. None are in her custody and she has lost all rights. My husband also had a drug problem. When difficult child was around a year and a half, he came home to her burned on her neck. The bio-mom refused to take her to the hospital and claimed it was a burn from the wall heater. The burn was not consistent with heater and looked like a deliberate curling iron burn. My husband took difficult child to hospital and was truthful with hospital regarding his and her drug use. The children were removed and my husband went to rehab. The children were put into foster care and once he completed rehab, counseling, ect the children were returned to him. Bio-moms rights were terminated. She did not attend rehab nor seek psychiatric help like CPS required. difficult childs current therapist actually was involved in the CPS case. He told me some of the past psychiatric issues bio-mom had.[/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=#333333][FONT=Tahoma]husband has some depression. He has been sober for almost seven years. His sister has bipolar and is an addict. His mother has anxiety issues but she is not treated. We do not have bio-moms history. She is in good health. Never complains of any stomachaches or headaches unless she is in a fit of rage. She is RARELY sick. Those [/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=#333333][FONT=Tahoma]Appetite depends on mood. She is the typical child when it comes to eating veggies but other than that she eats everything. She does play games with food and will not like something when she feels the need to control. She and our son both know bio-mom is out of the picture because of her drug use. She takes out almost ALL her rage on me. It peaks when my husband is at work. Recently, she went to school telling the teacher I was going to die any day. She also said they had to cut off a chunk of my stomach and a finger. Since she has never had issues at school, the teacher believed her. She continued coming to school for about a week and a half stating, Any day she is going to die. It then abruptly stopped. Dont get me wrong, I am not the only person she targets. My husband and her g-ma gets her rages too. I am just the typical target.[/FONT][/COLOR] [/QUOTE]
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