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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 577422" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>That was not out of nowhere! He had been abused (in the states there are legal limits to how long a child can be secluded from a group) and made to feel terrible. He held it together and the transition (plus probably being hungry) was just too much. (I'm guessing). </p><p></p><p>Seclusion for a long time is abusive and demeaning. Short time outs and breaks can be helpful, but being put in a place where other kids can see him and he can see them having fun, and I suspect they were not especially encouraging to him about doing better and calming etc......I imagine they were angry and cross in their tone......well that is just very different from a time out, in my humble opinion. I'm really mad at that teacher for hurting my nephew like that! Sorry if I am stepping over my boundary, they are not listening to you and that ticks me off so much. </p><p></p><p>I'm glad you got him out and home safely. (A dear friend has a child who is in diagnosis limbo land for his whole life and now at age 8 or 9 (I forget) he had a rage at school yesterday tipping tables etc. and he is now in the psychiatric hospital. They called an ambulance from school! so I am a little sensitive. This happens so much and it builds up. )</p><p></p><p>I wish you had more options. You do so beautifully with him on your own. But you need breaks to be able to maintain that. I want to borrow that magic wand flying around the board, maybe we can fix this for you....anyone know where one is?????</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 577422, member: 12886"] That was not out of nowhere! He had been abused (in the states there are legal limits to how long a child can be secluded from a group) and made to feel terrible. He held it together and the transition (plus probably being hungry) was just too much. (I'm guessing). Seclusion for a long time is abusive and demeaning. Short time outs and breaks can be helpful, but being put in a place where other kids can see him and he can see them having fun, and I suspect they were not especially encouraging to him about doing better and calming etc......I imagine they were angry and cross in their tone......well that is just very different from a time out, in my humble opinion. I'm really mad at that teacher for hurting my nephew like that! Sorry if I am stepping over my boundary, they are not listening to you and that ticks me off so much. I'm glad you got him out and home safely. (A dear friend has a child who is in diagnosis limbo land for his whole life and now at age 8 or 9 (I forget) he had a rage at school yesterday tipping tables etc. and he is now in the psychiatric hospital. They called an ambulance from school! so I am a little sensitive. This happens so much and it builds up. ) I wish you had more options. You do so beautifully with him on your own. But you need breaks to be able to maintain that. I want to borrow that magic wand flying around the board, maybe we can fix this for you....anyone know where one is????? [/QUOTE]
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