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<blockquote data-quote="Shari" data-source="post: 431628" data-attributes="member: 1848"><p>Yeah, well, since the accident, the thoughts I had/have aren't all that absurd. lol Mostly its just "this could happen again"...in a car, when its been that fleeting, barely a moment long feeling; but it was the same on the horse...only the horse was a lot longer in duration.</p><p> </p><p>I think this is the same "root cause" driving my unwillingness to tolerate husband's lack of doing anymore, too. He let me down big-time, and I worry about what would have happened if I had not been as ok as I was, and what happens if something happens to me in the future. What if I hadn't been able to be clear headed laying there on that road and tell him all the things that needed to be done? I shudder to think. He thinks he did what he needed to do because he fed me, but there is oh so much more to it. Maybe if we can resolve some of those things, it will help with this, too. Or maybe I just need to make an emergency manual - who to contact at work, insurance info to contact, bills and due dates, Wee's teachers, their roles, doctors, medications, and pharmacy info...</p><p> </p><p>I just hope it doesn't happen again. husband took the old wagon out last night and I rode horseback again. I rode in front of him for a good ways, and was cautious to keep room between us, but no real fear. Perhaps the "new" pony, wagon, and driver was part of it, too. But last night, for the 2 hours we were out, things were just fine (and my pony *rocked* - he was such a good boy last night. He got an extra scoop of sweet feed.)</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Shari, post: 431628, member: 1848"] Yeah, well, since the accident, the thoughts I had/have aren't all that absurd. lol Mostly its just "this could happen again"...in a car, when its been that fleeting, barely a moment long feeling; but it was the same on the horse...only the horse was a lot longer in duration. I think this is the same "root cause" driving my unwillingness to tolerate husband's lack of doing anymore, too. He let me down big-time, and I worry about what would have happened if I had not been as ok as I was, and what happens if something happens to me in the future. What if I hadn't been able to be clear headed laying there on that road and tell him all the things that needed to be done? I shudder to think. He thinks he did what he needed to do because he fed me, but there is oh so much more to it. Maybe if we can resolve some of those things, it will help with this, too. Or maybe I just need to make an emergency manual - who to contact at work, insurance info to contact, bills and due dates, Wee's teachers, their roles, doctors, medications, and pharmacy info... I just hope it doesn't happen again. husband took the old wagon out last night and I rode horseback again. I rode in front of him for a good ways, and was cautious to keep room between us, but no real fear. Perhaps the "new" pony, wagon, and driver was part of it, too. But last night, for the 2 hours we were out, things were just fine (and my pony *rocked* - he was such a good boy last night. He got an extra scoop of sweet feed.) [/QUOTE]
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