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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 172048" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>I am of two minds.</p><p></p><p>I think there are biochemical disorders that you are born with and develop over time. Something like diabetes or seizures. You cant parent them or discipline them out of a child but you can learn to fit your parenting around that childs set of problems. </p><p></p><p>There are also kids who have purely behavioral disorders which end as personality disorders later on that normally stem from some sort of invalidating condition in the childs life in the early years. It can be inadequate parenting, an illness, abuse, tormenting from peers...many things. For some reason the child doesnt feel safe and validated. Sometimes no matter what the parents do, what the child feels is simply not enough to make up for what they interpret.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 172048, member: 1514"] I am of two minds. I think there are biochemical disorders that you are born with and develop over time. Something like diabetes or seizures. You cant parent them or discipline them out of a child but you can learn to fit your parenting around that childs set of problems. There are also kids who have purely behavioral disorders which end as personality disorders later on that normally stem from some sort of invalidating condition in the childs life in the early years. It can be inadequate parenting, an illness, abuse, tormenting from peers...many things. For some reason the child doesnt feel safe and validated. Sometimes no matter what the parents do, what the child feels is simply not enough to make up for what they interpret. [/QUOTE]
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