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Part two of I'm not Visiting my Abuse Son in MO: I feel guilty. Yep.
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 568271" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Susie, I loved your post. Oh, he has a mood disorder, all right, and probably narcissism, which is even worse because medications can't treat it. I agree with you...he can find help if he really looks. He is being so disrespectful and threatening...his siblings loathe him. </p><p></p><p>I talked to Pastrychef this morning and she told me to flat out tell him to call me back when he can be nice and hang up. She actually has no idea why me or her father (my ex) talk to him at all because he is abusive to both of us. Ex is smarter. He's pulling back. I tried to be his strength, but I can't be. I can't even be his friend and he is too old for me to parent, like he's a five year old difficult child in distress.</p><p></p><p>I wish I could know my grandson, but that will never happen. Son is too far away and refuses to drive his son to Chicago, where I go many times a year. He clailms his fancy sportscar, which he also claims he can't sell because it's a lease, will not drive long distances or in the snow. If that's true, how useless is that car? Anyway, I'm not going to let him spoil my Christmas. And thank all of you for telling it straight.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 568271, member: 1550"] Susie, I loved your post. Oh, he has a mood disorder, all right, and probably narcissism, which is even worse because medications can't treat it. I agree with you...he can find help if he really looks. He is being so disrespectful and threatening...his siblings loathe him. I talked to Pastrychef this morning and she told me to flat out tell him to call me back when he can be nice and hang up. She actually has no idea why me or her father (my ex) talk to him at all because he is abusive to both of us. Ex is smarter. He's pulling back. I tried to be his strength, but I can't be. I can't even be his friend and he is too old for me to parent, like he's a five year old difficult child in distress. I wish I could know my grandson, but that will never happen. Son is too far away and refuses to drive his son to Chicago, where I go many times a year. He clailms his fancy sportscar, which he also claims he can't sell because it's a lease, will not drive long distances or in the snow. If that's true, how useless is that car? Anyway, I'm not going to let him spoil my Christmas. And thank all of you for telling it straight. [/QUOTE]
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